bipolar day
Today was wonderful…till about 3pm.
We got up early and made it over to the hospital for about 8:30. This is early enough that we weren’t waiting with a bunch of people already in the queue for blood-work and the such. So by 9:45 we had gotten Misty’s blood-work back and were starting on her chemo. First big point; Misty’s nurse (Eileen, who by the way literally came in to the hospital on a Saturday a couple weeks back (her day off) to give Misty a Neupogen shot. This saved us hours of waiting in an uncomfortable waiting room. It’s great to see there are still nice people left in the world!) – Anyway, she was pleasantly surprised to find Misty’s platelets well up since last time. This is good because patelets are what caused Misty to miss a treatment a few weeks back (and we expected that it could be a problem again).
So the blood is good, we get the treatment and we are on the way home – still feeling good. Now, today was the send-off lunch for my boss (Rich) and a co-worker (MAJ Togisala). Rich’s family is moving to Aberdeen MD in a couple weeks as he has taken a different job and MAJ T is off to Germany. I’ve wanted to go, but I literally haven’t been away from Misty (other than to run into the store while she is in the car with her mom and one quick trip to my office) in over a month. Since she had been feeling so well, however, I decided to go to the lunch (at Houlihan’s). It turned out very nice and I’m glad it did. Rich has been a really great boss to me and he has my utmost respect. And while he has been extraordinarily knowledgeable technically, that’s not what I appreciated most. He has been an example of a boss that cares more about the people under him than about the product he is producing. I have always felt that was the way to lead…so I always appreciated Rich. Needless to say, with everything going on, I’m quite lucky to have such a great work environment.
Here is the gallery, featuring some of the characters that I work with:
Rich Hoffmann and MAJ Togisala – Lunch
Now for the bad part. After Misty woke up from her afternoon nap, she was sick. Completely sick. She hasn’t felt this sick in weeks. She ate a muffin and fresh blueberries for breakfast, but that was the end of it. We tried to drink, but that was only marginally successful. She was quite sick all afternoon and into the evening. I’m really hoping she wakes up feeling a good bit better. Tune in tomorrow to find out how that goes..same bat time, same bat channel. (yes, I know I’m corny)
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I’m sorry Misty was so sick. I hope she gets to feeling better. Tell her we love her and your family. We are praying each and every day for her and the family. I am glad thou that she was able to get her chemo thou. We are praying for her each and every day and your family. You Darren, are truely amazing for what you do with/for Misty. Your unconditional love and the faith of God, and God having His hands on Misty and everyone praying will heal your beautiful wife, my niece, and take care of your family.
May God heal and bless your family,
With Love, Aunt Amy, grandma and Lacey
Good Morning Darren and Misty, I love to walk in the morning, on weekends and before work, early. I love to be among “creation” and talk to our Creator. It amazes me that He hears me and is concerned. Every morning when I wake before I get up I remember Misty and then outside the prayers rise. There are so many of us “storming” the throne room for Misty, for you, for Olivia and all the families and even your dearest friends each day. I believe Gods promises and I believe He has begun His divine work in Misty. Your life encourages mine and so many of us. I love you guys. I believe today will be a better day. Never ceasing to pray, your friend, Gail
hey darren,
i want you to know that my husband and i are praying for you and your family. i admire your devotion to both your family and to god. i have faith that everything will turn out ok. i admire misty’s strength and spirit. olivia is beautiful, she is growing so beautifully. we miss you, i hope to speak to you soon. i will keep you and your family in my prayers. dont ever hesitate to let me know if there is anything i can do for you.
much love
rosie