my encouragement, my companion, my lover (UPDATED w mailing info)
Five years ago I married a beautiful, talented, caring girl who I had dated for eight years (yes we were high school sweethearts). I don’t think I have the mental stamina to articulate just how much she meant to me. She really changed my life in so many ways. As I was growing up she challenged me to be better in everything I did and she was my biggest encouragement each step of the way. When I played out at concerts (with the band), I could barely wait to find Misty in the crowd afterwards to find out how I sounded and see what songs I went off pitch. As I was cutting my teeth as a songwriter, she was always my first listener and harshest critic. In college I began to build websites and she was the one who actually taught this nerdy engineer how to work with color and aesthetics. After college, she was the first to review my sermon outlines for youth group, and keep me in check when I was out of line in just about any area of life. She taught me about love, friendship, compassion, art, faith and so many pieces of life. I am who I am today, spiritually, emotionally and socially, because of my best friend of the past 13 years.
Tonight, I lost my encouragement, my companion, my critic and my lover. I lost the person in the world who is most dear to my heart. Misty peacefully fell asleep earlier tonight at 9:15pm. I can’t really say that I have this all figured out yet….because that is far from the truth. But I can say that the peace that I have had this week still lingers very real within my life. I’m not mad or angry. There is no one to be upset with. I cried a bit, but overall, I’m doing ok.
I’m still fasting but tonight my prayers turn towards those of you who have kids that have prayed for Misty. My heart breaks that they have to deal with hard spiritual issues like the fact that God doesn’t always heal…even when we really do have faith. And for those of you who have recently regained hope in God, please don’t give up. I can’t explain all the details, but He is still God, I’m sure of that. I still trust him even after going through such a let down…I hope you can still trust him as well. And for those of you who have loved my girl and prayed for her so fervently…I love you all and I pray that you will be renewed and encouraged tomorrow. That somehow God will give you peace that you don’t even understand in this midst of this. And of course, I’m praying for my family. I can’t say that it was the easiest thing for everyone to swallow. And as we move forward with a new chapter in life, our hearts will burn to have her with us. There is nothing to fully cure that pain. Lastly, I’m praying for Olivia. I don’t really need to explain that one I hope…this is heavy on my heart.
I want you to be comforted that Misty went from loving her life to being in a coma in only a few hours. God was good to her. There is much more about this that I really want you to hear, I have so many thoughts to express and emotions to explore.
So, like I said, I’m not really all that articulate tonight. It’s almost 3am and I haven’t slept much these past few nights. For now, I’m going to leave you with something that the Apostle Paul wrote in the book of 2 Corinthians:
2 Corinthians 4:16-18
16Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
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UPDATE: Service Info
Please join for a celebration with Misty. I look forward to celebrating with you all!
The service will be this Saturday (Sept 27th) at Calvary Lighthouse in Lakewood NJ. Click HERE for directions.
- Worship Celebration – 1:15pm (with the Chris Colletti Band)
- Memorial Service – 2:00pm (the interment will be family only, on a later date)
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to one of the following:
- Hope Resource Group is Darren’s new non-profit organization that was birthed out of Misty’s illness. The first line of resources, Anthem of Hope, is created to instill faith and hope in those with serious illness. There are millions in this country who are debilitated from sickness and are losing hope. Please donate to help us provide them with an Anthem of Hope. Donate on the top/right of this page. Alternatively, you can mail a check to
HOPE Resource Group
PO Box 4095
Long Branch, NJ
07740-5950
- St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital is internationally recognized for its pioneering work in finding cures and saving children with pediatric cancer. This was Misty’s favorite charity and she donated quite often. They deserve our support. Please visit http://www.stjude.org to donate.
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And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthythink about such things
Phil 4: 7-8
there are no words.
hugs & prayers,
lisa & earl
I’m so sorry. I will keep praying for family & friends.
Misty will be forever in out hearts. I love 2 Corinthians 4:16-18. that’s so beauitful. I felt a touch of that peace in her room. God Bless
May this peace than only God has give you continue to rein. Misty is completely healed and in the arms of Jesus right now. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers. What a beautiful life God gave you together…carry it on.
Hey Darren
First just let me say what an amazing man you are. thats really all that i can think of to say actually. you are great and i am praying for you like i have always been. im coming home on the next train moving out of baltimore so please, i know you will hear this a thouseand times, but whatever you can think of that i can help you with ill do it.
i love you so much
savannah
Darren…
I am so sorry. I love you and admire your strength and your faith and your humbleness when it comes to understanding our God. Thank you for taking the time to write and for being so honest. I know how blessed you were to have Misty, but I also know how blessed she was to have you. You were an amazing friend and husband to her, and I know you will continue to be an amazing father to Olivia. Because of you, I know Olivia will know her mother in a very real way. Thank you for teaching me so many things through this. I have a lot of respect for you and will always remain in awe of your wife who showed such faith and strength when many would have cursed God. My prayer, along with yours, is that people would not be angry with God, but that they would learn from Misty…how even though she was in pain and didn’t understand all that was happening to her, she knew God…and because of that knowledge she is standing before Him know, praising Him in a way we cannot possibly fathom.
I know you have plenty of family and friends (just look at the all the comments over the past few days), but I am here if you need me.
With love and respect,
Rachel
I’m sorry, Misty is okay now, better then she has ever been. Reading about how much she helped you in life so far means she will only help you more as time goes on. I love you and I’m praying with you.
I’m sorry, Darren. I love you.
Still praying.
Darren,
My heart goes out to you and Olivia and I continue to pray that the Lord would make His presence be felt so very strongly in the coming days. I can only hope in time Olivia will be able to read the things written on this site and be comforted in seeing the love that you and so many others had for Misty, even those that had never met her.
I’ll see you on Saturday.
Darren, I will continue to pray for you and Olivia. I’m so sorry, we will all miss Misty. May God continue to comfort you and all of us. She will be missed more than words can say. I love you.
Valery
Darren,
Thank you so much for taking the time to update all of us.
We will still be surrounding you and your little girl in prayer.
Hey brother Darren I am thanks only to God a man of many words but as I sit here with a bucket of tears as though it had been me who lost their companion, best friend and lover as my wife is to me .. there is no words to express other then that Misty is in a beeter place and at the gates of Heaven one day she will be waiting for you .. I will continue to pray for you and Olivia that our Father in heaven will give you the strength to carry on the work for His Kingdom and the wisdom to rise Olivia in a loving Home and I have no doubt that you are the man for that job .. God bless and comfort you my brother and if there is anything any one of us can do for you .. you only need ask and it will be done .. with all my love and the blessing of God till we meet wether here or in Heaven my prayers will be with you always .. Tbone out
Praying for you, Olivia, Claudia and all of your family.
Ah do!
No words. Only love for you and Olivia and continued prayers.
Darren
I know you only through your blog, but your faith has been a true inspiration, a man of God. In the days ahead, remember that just a God held Misty He now holds you and Olivia. May the love of family and friends, the joy of your memories, the peace of Christ and the grace of God keep y ou and comfort your today and always.
I have no wordds. Just know I’m praying for you.
Darren, Thank you for letting us be a part of your family. Still praying!
Oh. and today is wensday. Its STILL prayer day
Darren,
She is healed. Her joy is complete. We continue to pray that the peace of Christ will be with you and sustain you.
The Messinas
Dear Darren,
We love you so very very much. Thank you for encouraging us even in this hour. Misty was given the greatest blessings that she could have ever asked for. First she was given an eternal faith and love in our Savior. Then she was given you. God chose you to be the perfect person to love her and carry her through this season in her life. She was blessed with someone who loved her so deeply. You loved her in such a beautiful way that it was like every breathe she took she breathed in a pulse of your love for her. God gave her an amazing gift when he gave her you and Olivia. I had the wonderful blessing of getting to know and love her. My children adored her as they adore you. We love you and we are here for you. We will always be.
I Love YOU,
Lavenia, Amanda, Sam, Aaron, Marcus, Jaden, & Malaya
Dear Darren,
We love you so very very much. Thank you for encouraging us even in this hour. Misty was given the greatest blessings that she could have ever asked for. First she was given an eternal faith and love in our Savior. Then she was given you. God chose you to be the perfect person to love her and carry her through this season in her life. She was blessed with someone who loved her so deeply. You loved her in such a beautiful way that it was like every breathe she took she breathed in a pulse of your love for her. God gave her an amazing gift when he gave her you and Olivia. I had the wonderful blessing of getting to know and love her. My children adored her as they adore you. We love you and we are here for you. We will always be.
I Love YOU,
Lavenia, Amanda, Sam, Aaron, Marcus, Jaden, & Malaya & Jen
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Olivia and your family.
Our God is still the God He was Yesterday, Praise Him! Misty is completely healed, although it is not what we wanted or understand He has an even greater plan! Thank you so much for sharing your story . . . it has given me more than you will ever know. Still praying . . .
i don’t really have any poetic words of comfort like many others because i’m a bad communicator, but i am and will continue to pray for you all (wednesdsay!). when confronted with the reality that life is fragile, it motivates me to not take mine for granted and to live life to the fullest… thanks for teaching me so many lessons. you are truly inspiring! love you much…
I have been reading your blog for awhile and have been praying for your family. My heart and prayers continue to go out to you and I am so sorry about Misty.
I do want you to know that Misty has indeed been healed!! It was just not here on earth!! This is what I tell my kids when we pray for healing. We prayed for healing but God has His plan for healing.
Dear Darren,
I didn’t know Misty but I’ve been praying everyday for the both of you…i will however, still continue to pray for you and olivia and your families. May God continue to surround you with peace.
Darren, Olivia, Mike, Claudia and Arielle,
You have allowed us to be a part of something greater than ourselves. You have allowed us to be a part of your family and to be so intimately connected. How will we ever forget that? I know many of us will continue to cover you in prayer for quite some time. I guess the only comfort we can truly have is the knowledge that our precious sister is walking with the Lord Jesus and beholding Him face-to-face. She is totally enthralled with His beauty and majesty. There is so much more I want to say, but just know you all are so loved and cherished by us.
Love,
Julie
South Florida
Dear Darren,
My heart breaks over the pain that you are feeling right now. Your faith is amazing! Your testimony to so many who have followed your blog is great! Regardless of the outcome, know that Misty’s story HAS changed hearts for Jesus. I know that there are no words that I or anyone can say right now to ease your pain, but know that we are still here, praying and pleading God’s grace and peace over you, Olivia, and your family.
May the peace in you heart continue to hold you up.
Praise to God for His mercy for you, Olivia, Claudia,and your families and friends.
Darren – You’re a great man of faith and God has used you and Misty to literally change lives throughout this difficult season. I have no words to express how heavy my heart is for you right now. But I continue to be with you in prayer always. You’re being uplifted.
Darren,
All of our love and prayers to you and Olivia. That’s really I can say.
Kaitlyn (7) says to quote her favorite song for her, so here it is…”There are no band aids in Heaven, no emergency medical care….”
There are no words. God took Misty in his loving arms and she is now safe and happy. You have so much love around you and you must take advantage of that at this very difficult time. We continue to hold and your beautiful Olivia in our hearts and our prayers.
Last night as my two little ones (7 and 4) prayed with me for your family my son said “Mom, won’t it be neat to be with Jesus?” And once again this morning when I gently let them know that God had healed Misty in a way that meant she was now living with Him, my daughter proclaimed “She’s healed AND she gets to be with Jesus, that’s awesome!” I wish I could say my reaction was the same at first. We are continuing to pray for your family. May His peace be palpable to you in these coming days.
Dear Darren and Olivia, your family will always be in our prayers. May the love of Jesus surround you now and continue to be your peace. Thank you so much for bringing so many of us into your lives, you will never know how Misty’s life and your communication with all of us has meant to us and shown us so many things. Your love has shown us Christ’s love. We truly love you, Gail, Russ,Leah and Stephanie
Oh Darren…
As I sit here, the tears just seem to flow.
I have to say that through out this course in life you have allowed “us” (strangers, yet sister’s and brother’s) to share with you in such a personal journey. The bravery, steadfast devotion and complete trust marks the character of a great man, which is found in you!
Although I’m a little saddened that Misty went home to be with the LORD, I rejoice knowing she rest in our loving Saviors arms.
I will continue to keep you, Olivia and your entire family in my prayers Darren. Even tho we probably will never meet, you have touched my life in such a profound way. Misty will forever live on. She is not only a part of you, but she lives on in the hearts of us as tho she was a personal friend, sister and now a Saint.
There is more I’d like to say, but I find the need to get down on my knees and thank GOD for not only Misty, but for you.
I’ll write more later.
Love,
~Cindy~
Dear Darren, Olivia and Family, My daughter, Danielle attended Calvary a couple of years behind you and she has a friend Corrine (who you might know) and this is how I learned of you and Misty. I have been praying for all of you since I heard about Misty and I wanted you to know how deeply sorry I am for your loss. We know in our hearts that Misty is healed and whole and dancing with our Savior Jesus Christ. May you continue to feel God’s peace as you go thru this difficult time. My prayers will continue for you and Olivia.
In God’s Love
Roxanne and Family
Darren,
You are truly amazing, I love you and your family.
your Faith has shown such an inspiration to many people all over the world, Darren you have a gift
God’s gift continue to share that with others.
You are a awesome Daddy and with God’s Love remember you can do all things though Christ.
We will continue to left you, Oliva and your family up.
God Bless and have a Jesus filled day!
Pam and Family
Darren,
I’m sorry, I know how much you truly loved Misty and all that you did with and for her. At least we know she is in a better place and without pain. Praying you and Olivia hang in there. So many prayers go out to you and the family. You are in our hearts and we will always continue to pray.
May God Bless you forever and Little Olivia.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Love, Aunt Amy, Lacey, Sean, and T.C.
Dear Darren & Olivia, You will remain in our prayers. Your writings and your strength have been an awesome testimony of the man of God you are. What a legacy you both have for Olivia. God Bless, Don & Joanne Baldwin
You, Olivia, and your family are in our prayers. Thnak you for sharing you and Misty’s life with us via your blog–you are a great encouragement and example to us.
May the Lord bless you and keep you. May His face shine upon you and give you His Shalom.
I’m so sorry Darren. I know you are in pain, we are all in pain with you. Misty will always be in our hearts. Misty is free from her cancer now, she has been healed and she is face to face with our creator! God always had her in His arms, and He is still holding her with His loving arms. We will continue to have you and your family in our prayers. You are not alone. Know that we love you. May God’s love and peace surrender you and Olivia the same way it’s surrendoring Misty right now.
Love,
Dave and Raquel
Dear Darren, Misty, and Olivia,
We give you our solemn promise not ever to lose faith in the Lord. You and Misty taught us the greatest faith we have ever known and that faith will continue to grow.
We know that Misty is now our angel to continue to guide us down the path of righteousness and that Jesus is well pleased with her.
Our prayers will continue always and we love you all with all that we are.
We will see you this weekend.
Love,
Aunt Kim, Uncle Steven, and Bella
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Blessed assurance, Jesus is hers.
Darren,Olivia and family -
I lost my brother recently, and in now way do I relate to your presonal grief or situation. I do know that it is assurance that our loved ones are standing with their Lord who keeps them from pain and sickness forever. A close friend of mine sent me this writing when my brother passed away… it really is a beautiful writing that meant alot to me and still does. Still praying for you and your entire family and network of friends who love Misty.
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I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and the sky come to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says, “There, she is gone.”
“Gone where?”
Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear the load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me, not her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, “There, she is gone.” There are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, “Here she comes!”
Darren, Though sadness stills me at this moment, I know that this saying that I heard from the pulpit are so, so true….
The will of God will never take you
where the grace of God can’t keep you.
Asking our Lord to bring comfort to you and all the family, even those of us who loved and adored Misty as well,
Yvonne
Darren and Olivia-
We have not stopped praying and will not for you and your family. God is still a God of miracles. Thankfully , He remains the same, yesterday, today and forever. We can never fully comprehend him or His ways. Misty finally gets to understand everything about Him as she basks in His presence. We rest in the knowledge that one day we will get to dance at His throne together.
no words…I am so sorry for your loss. will be praying for you.
Can I still believe? I am not asking this question of my belief in God, I can’t help that. I find it impossible not to believe. But can I still believe in a miracle? I know, “dead” you say, gone on to be with Him in heaven. A better place, no argument with that, and if that is where we think she should be, really, then I’ll stop right now and worship and thank God for bringing her there so peacefully. But if we believe that it’d be best if she continued on here, which it seemed just hours ago that we did, then, can I ask my God to raise her from the dead? Can I still believe?
Luke 8:54-55
They laughed at him, knowing that she was dead. But he took her by the hand and said, “My child, get up!” Her spirit returned, and at once she stood up.
Luke 7:12-16
As he approached the town gate, a dead person was being carried out—the only son of his mother, and she was a widow. And a large crowd from the town was with her. When the Lord saw her, his heart went out to her and he said, “Don’t cry.”
Then he went up and touched the coffin, and those carrying it stood still. He said, “Young man, I say to you, get up!” The dead man sat up and began to talk, and Jesus gave him back to his mother.
They were all filled with awe and praised God. “A great prophet has appeared among us,” they said. “God has come to help his people.”
I still believe.
Our prayers will always continue for you and your family.
I’m praying for all those people you mentioned in your message, Darren — especially those whose faith will be shaken.
May God’s love surround you in a very real way —
Hugs for Olivia.
Darren:
I so admire your faith and your faith and your honesty, your courage and your open heart. You and your familly have been a huge blessing for so many people. As long as we are alive we will struggle with trying to understand the mind of God, which we cannot. We try to understand what and why he asks of us the things that he does, and the truth is, while we are here we will never know all the answers. I am glad you are at peace, and I hope you celebrate within yourself the quality of life you gave to Misty, yourself and your Olivia the last few months when the medical establishment gave up. That was not only a gift to your family, but to all of us that have followed your journey and have prayed with you.
God Bless you all, you will be on my mind again today. More so than usual.
Darren,
Misty is looking into the face of God this morning. What joy to be in His presence.
Darren you have brought such love into our lives by allowing us to be a part of your lives. You have taught the young and the old about love and strengthn and faith. Your’s, Misty’s, and Olivia’s lives will be a part of everyone who knows you personally or through this website forever. Misty was an incredible woman and it is hard to see her go at such a young age but through your faith we know that God had a greater purpose for her life. This website has seen testimonies of people coming back to the Lord, of people’s faith being made stronger, of His word being manifested – Misty has left a legacy for Olivia and you have written down for her to read someday.
May God shine his light upon you, Olivia, and Misty’s family today and always as you find comfort in knowing that Misty has received the ultimate healing in the arms of her Lord and Savior.
I will always remember you all in my prayers.
Love,
Joan
Bendiciones!!So sorryyy! May God continue to give you peace!! Praying… Love …
You are such a precious man Darren. If that was you being inarticulate than all I can say is that surely God is speaking through you and will continue to flow through your life with power as you walk through this time in his arms. He is strong.
I will be praying for you and your family along with the many who have been touched by your extraordinary faith and love for your wife, and for the body of Christ.
our prayers and love continue to be with you and your family.we love you all.although misty going home to be with the Lord is a huge loss to us on earth,it is a huge gain for our father God and all of heaven.
Hey Darren,
i’m So Sorry… i’ll Continue to pray for you and your family… I love you ….
Hugs and kisses for All you Guys..
My thoughts and prayers are continuing for you and your family, especially precious little Olivia. I know you are finding comfort from our Lord and Savior as we all know Misty is walking with him right now. God Bless you all….
Prayers and condolences to you, my friend.
We have prayed for God’s peace these past few days. We are now praying for comfort and strength.
We are so sorry for the pain and the difficult times. We are grateful for how God has used Misty’s life to glorify himself and bring the body of Christ together.
Praise God for how he works.
We love you guys,
Chuck and Cris
I am trying to slow down today. I will hold my family a little longer, I will smile a little more. Im crying alot this morning as my children ask me why. I feel such sadness for a family I have never met… But, so much thankfulness that you have shared, and so gratefull to know people like you exist…exist here on earth and in heaven.
Love and Peace…always.
My heart and prayers are with you and your family.
Darren,
You are a mighty man of valor. The angels in heaven are rejoicing. Misty is free from cancer there and in the wonderful arms of our Savior. In prayer for you.
M
Darren,
I join with many in repeating that we will continue to pray for you, Olivia, and your families. May God’s everlasting love and peace envelop you in this time.
I’m So Sorry
I was sorry to learn
of your loss ,
And I Wanted to express
My deepest sympathies.
Not one of us
Knows where our road
Will lead us or where
Our road ends.
But in times of
Sorrow, we receive
Comfort from our friends.
If there is anything
I can do for you
Anything at all…
I’ll be here for you;
Always your friend.
My deepest sympathies
To you and your family.
May God Bless You and comfort you in your hour of grief.
….no fancy words to offer….still praying for you and your whole family in His Name.
thank you for being the greatest example of faith i have ever known
Thank you for sharing your heart, your family, and your love for Jesus. Misty is now sitting with our God, completely healed and whole.
Dear Darren, Olivia and all your family,
I am so saddened for the loss of an amazing woman of God but do know that Misty has heard the words “well done thou good and faithful servant”. While her work on this earth is done the impact that she and your family have made on so many lives is not over. I thank God for the blessing that your family has been to mine. Thank you for being such a pillar of faith even when you didn’t feel it. You will all be in my family’s prayers regularly as you begin this new chapter of healing and faith. I know that Misty is free from all pain and suffering as she is held in the arms of a loving God singing in the beautiful voice He gave her uninhibited to speak with peace and clarity!! We love you all,
Melanie
Darren, I have emailed the entire Christian Radio community across the nation, and they have all been praying for your family, and will continue to pray. We miss you Misty. We will hold Darren and Olivia up in Prayer.
Love transcends worlds.
Still keeping you in prayer, friend. Know that your words have helped to strengthen my faith.
Love is eternal. Her love lives on in Miss Olivia. God Bless you both.
May the lord strengthen you and give you peace and bless you and your daughter at this difficult time.
Darren,
Its with a heavy heart that I offer my condolences. I also pray a prayer of thanks for the way Misty has changed your life and the lives of many others in the time that she had with us on this earth.
I hope that as the church, the body of believers, will be with you and Olivia and your family in this time and the time to come. The good news, no, great news is that this is not where the story ends. We still believe. More than belief, an action on our part, is that Jesus has shattered death and has a place prepared for Misty and for each of us.
Darren,
There are no words to explain how I feel. I admire your strength and faith. You, Olivia, Mike & Claudia are still in my prayers. Thank you for sharing with every one of us each day.
If our lives are truly ordained by God for a purpose which I believe in all my heart, Misty has already heard the words ‘well done, thy good & faithful servant’. Darren, you hear those words now also at this very hard time from all of your online family. Know that you both have touched sooo many lives for Christ. Know that you both have changed those lives even for eternity by your website, by living out the faith while walking thru the fire. You will not be burned, the Lord WILL hide you under his wings and you will smile again (against all reasoning) as you envision Misty as she truly is today, dancing on streets of gold and singing. Holy Holy Holy is the Lord.
Darren,
I’m sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy and prayers will be with you and your family God doesn’t always heal on earth. Now Misty is face to face with the one and only. Misty is in no more pain. She was called back home. You will see her again. Stay looking up and don’t look back. God has an amazing journey for you to live out. Stay focused and always look up. God bless.
Darren, we are so sorry for you loss. I know though that Misty will be with you all always. You are an amzing person, who though this great tragity has found the stenght to contunue to teach. You helped to give me back my faith, hope and love for god, and I will never forget. Misty was a gift that you so generiously shared with all of us. God bless you all.
The stars in the heavens shine brighter now. Continuing to pray for you, Olivia, and Misty’s many friends and family members. I have a beautiful image of Misty staring into the face of Jesus Christ, who loves her so!God bless you.
God bless you and Olivia. You are an inspiration and blessing to us all. Praying for you still..
Darren, although my heart is broken and very heavy for you this morning, I know that God will lead you, your family, and many of the rest of us through this valley. I will definitely be praying for you. I love you and wish I could be beside you right now.
darren
your family is in our thoughts and prayers. I will always remember Misty as a loving and kind person. she was a definite woman of beauty and grace. we are thinking of you all. we love you.
rebekah
I am so sorry. I will continue to pray for you and for Olivia. (((((hugs)))))
Darren,
Although I only know you via your blog, and have only been reading for a little while, your faith has encouraged my heart. I am praying for you and your family as you walk the days and weeks ahead. God will help you through this, as his grace and strength are more than we could ever understand.
Blessings
darren i am praying for u iam so sorry to hear about misty i will have my church keep praying for u and ur family if there is any way i can keep please let me know agian iam sooo sorrry
laura
Darren-
You, Olivia, and your family are in our prayers.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” – Matthew 11:28-30
In Him, Bre
Dear Darren,
We are so sorry about your loss. Our hearts ache along with yours. We pray that the peace that surpasses all understanding be with you and your family. God Bless you.
Love,
The Mahabir family
Darren,
Our family’s deepest sympathies are with your family. Despite Misty’s absence from our midst, her body has now been fully restored by our Gracious Father. I will pray fervently for you to continue to walk strong through this darkest of storms, because you have been such a remarkable example, witness, and inspiration throughout Misty’s illness. God’s love observed through your love for your wife has touched thousands of lives, including my wife and myself.
Thank you so much for your transparency and courage.
-Tom
Not only is Misty in the arms of Jesus now, but I can see her dancing in the streets of heaven. Darren, I will continue to pray for you, and to pray for Olivia as if she were one of my own children.
May God continue to sustain you and bring you joy in this time of sorrow.
I am so sorry Darren. I will be praying for you, Olivia, and the rest of your family as you grieve the loss of Misty. I wish I would have known you better in college…it would have been an honor. Thank you for sharing your story…it must be the most beautiful love story I have ever read. Thank you for inspiring so many.
If there is anything anyone out there can do for you and your family, please let us know.
Praying through tears.
Jessica
Darren – So many people are praying for you. I pray you feel those prayers and that God blesses you with the kind of comfort and peace only He can provide. I so wish Misty had been healed in your arms, but He reigns! and I can’t help but smile at the thought of Misty being healed in her Father’s arms right now…
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers…Kim
Darren,
I pray that the peace of God continues to uphold you in this time of sadness. Please find comfort in knowing that Olivia will be blessed throughout her life because of the legacy left by Misty and your example of faith.
Aly
Darren,
Please accept my condolences. I will continue to keep you, Olivia and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Our prayers are with you and your family. We love you!
Darren, You are such a testimony and encouragement. I will continue praying for you, your daughter, and your family.
Jeannine (McCarthy) Fenlon
I’m so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you, your daughter, and the rest of your family and friends at this difficult time.
Dear Darren, I am so so sorry that you and your family are going through this. I know the pain of loss. All though my loss was my son not my spouse bestfriend or my mother I still know the pain. God will continue to show himself strong and that peace will be with you and both yours and Misty’s family. God has healed her she has her new body. When Jonathan passed away I had a dream that he came out from the back room at the funeral home and was naked. He asked the women working there if I knew he was there and where did his clothes and tattoos go. At that point in the dream his skin became very bright and it was like baby skin fresh and new. It was then I knew he was safe with Jesus. I miss him but not like some I am so at peace people think I am crazy. You will cry, ache, even maybe scream for your loss, but then in a secound it will turn of and you will be flooded with comfort of the Holy Spirit. My prayers continue for all of you. xo
Darren & Family~
I don’t know you, nor did I know Misty. I found my way to your site thru a friend’s link. Your faith in God, Love for your wife & honesty has touched me. I just wanted to let you know that I am hurting for you. I am also praying for you, your daughter & rest of your family.
I hope that you will post again & keep us updated on how you are doing. I certainly won’t forget your Misty, you both have touched my life.. and I don’t even know you.
Praying for you.
I love you man, my prayers continue to be with you and Olivia.
Adam
No words. Just love. Blessings to you and yours.
Keep Looking Up
Peace
Darren,
You and Misty have taught me so much about faith and hope and love. It is hard to shift gears from praying for and believing in a miracle to praying for peace for you and Olivia and your families. I know you wanted Misty’s healing to inspire people across the nation to see God and see this testament to his power. Even though it didn’t happen that way, you and Misty have STIll inspired thousands of people, many of whom you’ve never even met. I thank you for your honesty, for your strength, for your example of true love and faithfulness. I will continue to pray for you and Olivia and your family and friends. May God grant you peace and understanding and continued faith.
From the bottom of my heart, my deepest sympathy, love, and thanks,
Danielle
Darren,
Don’t you ever feel like we are still kids, trapped in some kind of world that we do not understand… facing adult things that we shouldn’t have to yet? Yet, here we are almost 30 years old. How did that happen? Can we just go back to being innocent and naive kids?
I am sitting here in tears. My daughters are too. Not because we don’t know where Misty is. In fact, I have been sitting here imagining her sweet entrance into heaven. I know it was a GLORIOUS day and the angels rejoiced. Yet, we mourn the loss of such a beautiful life. Heaven gained a gift and the world lost one.
My heart is aching today for you. Yet here you are still so strong and so full of faith. I stand in awe. You are one amazing guy. My only regret is not having gotten to know the two of you as adults. Just this time that I have had reading your blog has blessed me beyond anything I could explain. You have been a witness to MANY. You have been a witness to me.
I love you Darren. My family and I will continue in prayer for you and preicous Olivia. I am sending you hugs. I wish I could hug you in person.
I know that words have no meaning today and nothing anyone says can truly comfort your grieving heart. Just know that my heart grieves with yours. May you feel love from all over the world and from all of the people that Misty’s life has touched.
I still believe.
But is that enough? I haven’t gotten it all worked out yet. I read and re-read verses of scriptures that state, in the plainest language I can imagine, simply that we are to ask, in faith, believing for a miracle and receive one. I can’t imagine more people asking and believing than what went on here for Misty. I, in my finite mind, can’t see a downside to her being healed. I am deeply aware of the gap between my ways and God’s ways, but I looked around and saw thousands of people whose faith would no doubt be stronger for it. Mine would have, but it wasn’t for that reason that I was asking. The reason I was asking was simply to make it easier for me to show those who don’t believe, just how powerful my God is. The byproduct of her healing, the reuniting of husband and wife, mother and daughter, sisters, would be awesome. Even writing this now, though, I am having trouble with the past tense. I haven’t cried yet. Even Jesus cried, moments before raising Lazarus. He cares. I guess maybe I’m still waiting, unconvinced. I can’t get the verses out of my head. I am certain that Mary and Martha weren’t expecting Lazarus back; neither did the woman at the gate expect to see her son sit up in his coffin. Am I foolish? Maybe I am. But why not? Would it be more difficult? Is anything difficult for God?
i love you, my friend and my brother in Christ.
.Love.
Darren, you, Olivia and your whole family are in our prayers. We love you.
Psalm 62:5-8
Find rest, O my soul, in God alone;
My hope comes from him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation;
He is my fortress, I will not be shaken.
My salvation and my honor depend on God;
He is my mighty rock, my refuge.
Trust in him at all times, O people;
Pour out your hearts to him,
For God is our refuge.
Find comfort in God and your daughter. I know you will miss your best driend.
Darren,
I only JUST found your web-site yesterday, September 23, 2008. I read your blogs for about 2 hours and only started praying for you yesterday. I was touched by your faith and your stories. My family also went through a situation where we believed we would receive healing, and prayed for 4 months that doctors were wrong with their prognosis. In the end the dotors prognosis stood and our prayers weren’t answered as WE wanted but as God wanted. My daughter would be turning 5 this year and starting kindergarten. She passed away in my arms at 19 hours old. It took me 4 years to walk through the healing process after that, but I now know GOD is ALWAYS faithful, I still don’t understand why my prayers weren’t answered the way I wanted them to be, but I am now in a place of trusting God knew best. Though your prayers weren’t answered the way you believed and prayed for, God knows. He will be your pillar of strength and your comfort through this time. Continue to seek his peace,He will always be there for you. I will continue to be praying for you and your precious daughter as you continue to walk in His ways and start down this new road.
Well it has been so long of a journey that I truley beleive is somw what like the apostle Paul. With all his suffering and inprisioned. If he had not gone through all of anmeasureable suffering, we would not have the Bible as we know it, I know it sure does sound strange to some people, especially at such a time as this, but I knoe Darren you are and will continue what God has instore for you. Misty also has had a great part in all that will be accomplised noe and in the future.
I can,t say enough, hoe sorry I am for your loss, but Misty just got the greatest promotion!!
With Much Love and Prayers to you and the whole family, Valerie and John.
Darren,
Believe me I know, no words can ease your pain at this moment. The entire LeBlanc, Orr, Ellison,and Schroeder families are being lifted up at this difficult time. Please know if there is anything we can do, you name it, it’s done. We love you guys as our own, and we are holding you up in prayer as you have held us up not very long ago.
Take comfort in the knowledge she was loved by so many and she loved so many. Her life touched so many young ones, my children included. My girls have so many fond memories of Misty at the youth beach parties, in youth group and also from family parties. She was an amazing young woman with a heart full of love. You are an incredible man of God. You will be richly blessed.
Love you,
David, Sandy, Heather, Kayla, and Nathan
Sending prayers and much love from Texas.
Darrin and Olivia and to all your loved ones;
I am sorry for the loss of your beloved wife and friend, wonderful mother….and all she was to so many who knew her well. You are a rich man, and I know that you will go forward in God’s Love and his strength. Our hope is that we will all meet again one day in heaven, and all that we do on earth is to glorify God.
Oh Darren….I am so very sorry. Oyr heart is truly broken and can’t stop feeling the pain of Misty being gone. We will continue to pray for you and your family….especially Olivia. Misty is at peace…she will always be beautiful, loving and will be waiting for you when it is your time to see our Lord. We love you Darren.
Darren,
I am sorry for your loss and that Misty’s healing was not here on earth. Your constant faith, hope, and courage has been an inspirtation to me. That same hope, faith, and courage is the legacy that Misty leaves behind as she now sits at the feet of Jesus… restored and rejoicing! I have been so inspired by you and Misty… inspired to be faithful in praying for another person every day, inspired to trust and hope that God will heal someone (w/o trying to guard my own mind and emotions in case He doesn’t), inspired to praise Him and trust Him even in my own suffering. I will continue to pray for you, Olivia, and your family in the days, weeks, and months to come as you grieve the loss of your beautiful wife and find comfort in the love of Jesus.
Praying God’s loving arms around you and your family during these painful days. May His peace and comfort continue to sustain you. Misty’s strength, courage and unwavering faith has and will continue to be the mark that we will strive to attain. Thank you for allowing us to be a witness to her courage. The amazing example of faith that you have shown has impacted our lives greatly and will not be forgotton.
Love in Christ, Sherry and Mike Forlenza
Darren –
I’m so sorry that you lost Misty. We rejoice that she is with the Lord, but my heart breaks for you and your family. Will continue to be praying hard for you all. Thank you for your example you have given to all of us.
Hey Darren,
Still praying for you. It’s hard to lose your best friend. And you are right God is still faithful even when we can’t wrap our head around what He’s doing or why He’s not doing something. May God be your comfort. We’re here if you need anything, please let us know. Rest in knowing that Misty is healed. She’s better then she’s ever been. She’s finally complete and in the glory of God’s presence.
Love ya,
Heather and Micah Albert
God is a rock, we stand in the cleft as the storm passes. I pray you and your little one will be covered by peace. I pray your nights will be sound with sleep and your days will be filled by the comfort and company of friends and family. So much favor over you two in the name of our God, Jesus Christ.
Darren, I felt very heavy all day yesterday – not much peace – maybe it was just an urgency to keep fighting. I’ve said many times ‘we will not lose this battle’. I will not stop praying – no – I will not give up. I only read a couple of entries that support what I will be praying through the day today. There are so many comforting words that we are accustomed to hearing at times like these that do not come from the source of truth that we’ve been standing on for so long for Misty. There are many gospel stories that come to mind of people being raised up – even Lazarus – past the significant point of 3 days… I’ve been praying and declaring that Misty would rise up since she entered the hospital. It was no different this morning. In the past, very recent past, I have fought with guilt over standing in faith past the point that is widely accepted in our world today. I’ve questioned God and I can’t say that He’s given me an answer to all of my questions but He did put a testimony right in front of me and after reading it, I decided that no more would I feel guilty for praying for LIFE regardless. Also, constantly on my mind is my friends’ stand for their son. Besides them, I’ve never witnessed anyone stand with such rock solid faith until yours and Misty’s stand. I’ve stood with you and been encouraged by you and I will not let go until God gives me release to do so. My heart feels broken and the tears are flowing but my faith remains strong. It has nothing to do with God coming through. I don’t believe that Misty’s work is done on this earth. She has a beautiful daughter to raise and an amazing husband to love and support. God is not in the business of stealing, killing, or destroying – lives or families.
I continue to stand on every truth from the Word of God that we have been speaking over Misty. His will, His plans, His purposes, His goodness, His mercy, His grace, and LIFE abundant.
Nothing is impossible with God.
Love in Christ, Michele, Darrell, Bradley, Brenton, and Braylon – (they are all standing in agreement with me!)
Our prayers for peace and comfort are with you and your family.
I’m so very sorry for your earthly loss of Misty.
You are separated only for a time.
And now thanking and praising God that He chose to heal her forever!
Darren,
I didn’t know Misty as well as I knew you in highschool (and I didnt even know you that well) but I can say that when I first started hearing about keeping Misty in prayer because of what she was going through, her face popped into my mind. I remembered what she looked like only because I saw her so many times when I was little passing in the hallway of calvary.
I can say that the only word that popped into my mind was, genuine.
I may have not known her, but I did watch, being 4 years younger in school. She always seemed to have such a sweetness about her. A true, genuine sweetness. It was written all over her face. Everyone loved her.
She is in a better place even though we all want her here. I am amazed at your strength through all of this. You have shown so many people that even through the toughest of times, someone can still have faith and a sense of comfort when they have the Lord in their life. Nothing is too impossible with God, but He wanted her in HIS arms.
All the lives she touched and people she inspired throughout her years of living on this earth are not over, even now that she is with Jesus.
My prayers and thoughts are with you, Olivia and Misty’s family.
Darren, Oliva, family members
My prayers are with you. If I or co-workers can help in anyway Darren please do not hestitate to call.
1 Peter 5:6-7
Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
God Bless!
Laura
Darren,
While we were praying for Misty to be healed, it was really us, the body of Christ, who were healed. Through Misty, we have united all over the world in one thought and mind–into what God created us to be. How many people can say that they left the world truly a better place? Misty’s faith and love have shown us all how to be better Christians, and better wives, sisters, daughters, and mothers. Through prayer we have opened our hearts to God and allowed Him to change us and grow us into who He wants us to be. Misty’s miracle did occur, and it was beyond one person and one frail body. It was all of us.
I love you, bro. Anything you need, just ask.
Megan
I love that song “Come to Jesus” by Chris Rice. The final verse says…
With your final heartbeat, kiss the world goodbye. And go in peace and laugh on glory’s side. And fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus and live.
And I’m having a hard time writing it right now without my eyes filling with tears. But I’m so inspired by your amazing strength, Darren. You have truly touched people throughout this, and I know that you will be a pillar of strength for Olivia as she grows.
We will continue to pray that God overwhelms you with love during this difficult time.
Love,
Sharon & Rob Taylor
This is the day the Lord hath made, let us rejoice and be glad in it. Yes, today this is a painful choice. In Christ, I know you can do it, Darren, just like all the many other hard things that Christ has helped you do. In a morning devotion today I read: Habakkuk 3:17
A Hymn of Faith
17 Though the fig tree may not blossom,
Nor fruit be on the vines;
Though the labor of the olive may fail,
And the fields yield no food;
Though the flock may be cut off
from the fold,
And there be no herd in the stall
18 Yet I will rejoice in the Lord,
I will joy in the God of my salvation.
19 The Lord God is my strength;
He will make my feet like
deer’s feet,
And He will make me walk on
my high hills.
I pray God ministers to you and all who grieve through His Word. I continue to pray…through Him.
Vicki
I am so sorry for your family’s loss. I find in times of great saddness, there is comfort to be found in this poem.
Parable of Immortality ( A ship leaves . . . )
by Henry Van Dyke
I am standing by the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze
and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength,
and I stand and watch
until at last she hangs like a peck of white cloud
just where the sun and sky come down to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says, ‘There she goes!
Gone where? Gone from my sight – that is all.
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar
as she was when she left my side
and just as able to bear her load of living freight
to the places of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says,
‘There she goes! ‘ ,
there are other eyes watching her coming,
and other voices ready to take up the glad shout :
‘Here she comes!’
I’ve never met you guys, and have only been following your blog for the past few months, but even so, I feel like I’ve gotten to know you all. Thank you for sharing your lives, and your incredible faith, with us. My thoughts & prayers continue to be with you, your beautiful daughter, and your family.
I am so very sorry. I will continue to pray for you and Olivia, and that God keeps Misty under his watchful eyes in heaven. Although I never met her, her life and her story was and is incredible and amazing. Although she will be deeply missed and it will be hard for a while, please know it will get better. I lost my Mom in 1995 to cancer and I have found that each day, each week, each month gets easier as you begin to realize that they are not suffering anymore but rather watching over all of us who they loved. Just hold on to all your memories and treasure all the happy times you got to share with her. Much love to you and your family at this time and always.
Darren,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in the forefront of my thoughts. Your strength shines through, as it has through your entire ordeal. Olivia is very lucky to have you in her life, and she will help keep you strong as well.
Jennifer
Darren,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Your words , thoughts, and concern for OTHERS is AMAZING.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
~ Rich & Peggy Dela Cruz
Hey Darren,
Im truly sorry to hear about your loved one and I also want to let you know that God loves you so much.. You and Olivia will be in my prayers.. May you have a peace and comfort that she is healed in the name of Jesus.. Continue to keep your head up high and remember God will never forsake you or leave you.
Love in Christ,
Minerva Regaspi
P.S. “So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
~Isaiah 41:10~
“This is what it means to be held.
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive.
This is what it is to be loved.
And to know that the promise was
When everything fell we’d be held”
Lurker here— I’m so sorry Darren. Praying for you & yours.
still praying
So sorry for your loss!
In the arms of our Father, Praise you Lord!
This post was so beautiful. I cry tears for your pain. Now we will focus our prayers for you and your family.
I sat reading through tears. I am so terribly sorry that this happened. I am praying for you,Olivia and your entire family as you grieve Misty!
You will always remember and love her as you do right this very minute. She will live on in you and through Olivia.
Where you find the strength I will never know but you are one of the most amazing people I have ever come in contact with and I don’t even know you.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am going to continue to check on you and Olivia as you will continue to be in my prayers!
Darren and Olivia – our hearts ache with sorrow for your loss, but also with joy for Misty as she worships fully restored in our Father’s presence. Thank you for sharing such a fitting Scripture at this time. You are both (and family) in our prayers. Wednesdays will continue!
Darrin and Family
I am so sorry for your lost but we all know where she is and she will always be in our hearts. God closes one door and opens another. I know that from experience. Continue to win people over to Jesus. I know that you will be a wonderful father to Olivera, because you are a godly man. When you think of Misty always think of the good things that happen and you will never be sad. I will continue to pray for all of your family to find peace in your hearts.
Love ya God bless
Linda D
Two days ago we were declaring it God’s will for Misty to be healed. If that is the truth, if we really believed that, how can we so easily quit the battle that is not yet done? When I first started reading the updates, Misty was already declared dead. Her body just had to catch up. Until then, we were willing to stand and believe. Now…Now what? What has changed?
Anonymous asked if it is easier to let go and wrap ourselves in the words of comfort. Perhaps. But it would have been easier to walk away from the site the first day I saw it and just let things go in peace. It would have been easier not to get involved and pray and fast for Misty.
I agree with Michelle and Anonymous. I don’t think our job is done. I refuse to let go so easily. My God finds it no harder to raise Misty now than He did to heal her two days ago. Do we understand that in our hands is a sword with the power to create an entire universe out of nothing? Can it be so much harder to restore flowing blood to a bruised body than it is to make that body in the first place.
The question is not the state of Misty’s physical being. The question is whether we believe God said He wants her healed, and if so, are we willing to believe Him even now?
I have not stood down. I waivered a moment this morning, but I am back at my post, and my prayer is still for restoration and healing for this woman of God and her family.
Darren,
Thank you for sharing with us your beautiful love story. It has been filled with faith and your love for God. Misty will remain in our hearts and thoughts forever.
Thanks again and God bless you!
Love you!
Dear Darren, Olivia and all the family;
My prayers are with you all that God will continue to keep His loving arms around you and heal the whole in your hearts. Misty is totally healed now, never again will she be in pain and is in the peaceful loving arms of our Lord in Heaven. That is God’s promise to us. Misty’s life has been a blessing to so many people and your blog that tells her story has restored faith in lives of so many people. Misty lives on in your hearts and ours, always.
Darren,
Could let us know who to contact for flowers or we could donate to your Anthem Of Hope?
God Bless You Darren and Olivia.
I’m so sorry Darren. We love you and we’ll keep praying for you.
~chuck
You are in our hearts… Your family will be bathed in prayer by those who have come to love and embrace you so. I walked my own similar journey nearly a year ago and realize that there is nothing I can say to ease your pain, so I leave you with words that brought me comfort from the One who Is comfort…
Precious in the sight of the LORD
is the death of his saints. Psalm 116:5
With Love and Compassion,
Chip and Kerry
Dear Darren,
I’m sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. Heather
Darren, Olivia, and all of Misty’s loved ones…
My heart breaks for you. My most sincerest of prayers are being sent to you.
Claudia, as a mother, I have no words for the pain you must be feeling. Many prayers being sent to you.
God Bless all of you.
Darren, Olivia, Arielle, Claudia, Mike…Our hearts are so so so heavy for you. Our love, tears, thoughts, support, and prayers are with you all. May God give you a very special gift of peace and warmth and wholeness. May He take very special care of your hearts. Your friends, Erika and Matt
darren -
my husband mubanga and i have been following your website and praying for you and misty for a few months now since michelle (lehman/wenger) told us about everything going on with misty’s brain tumor. it has been especially interesting to me because i work in neurosurgery as a physician assistant and we see a lot of patients with glioblastomas. but even more amazing has been seeing how God grew so much faith in you and misty throughout this whole experience. i know He will continue to strengthen you and increase your faith even more now as you push along through life without misty. we’re so saddened to hear that misty passed away. be encouraged that she will now have perfect health forever. we’ll continue to pray for you, olivia, and your families.
Darren,
I’ve started to post something 3 or 4 times now today. There are so many thoughts, feelings, and emotions…
Just want to let you know you’ve got people in Virginia still praying for you, Livi (Libbie is what my 2 year olds call her)and the rest of your family. Virgina National Guardsmen, churches, and I know Ruth and many at Messiah continue to lift you all before the throne. We are especially praying God will use the service in a mighty way.
Looking forward to all God is going to do through the testimony, and faith of Misty.
Love you guys!
Rebeka (Becky Cheung), Randy, Nathan, Isaac and Scott Rusch
Darren,
You know you’re like a brother to me. My heart is breaking for you. But Misty is in pain no more…no suffering, no cancer. She won! She’s where we all want to be more than anything in the world – in the arms of God. She just beat us there.
I love you, man.
Andrew
My heart is broken for your entire family. Thank you for reminding me of how big our God is. Life gets go out of control and it is hard to stop and realize God has his hand in everything. Your family is such a light. I know that Misty is dancing in our Lord’s glory today.
Still standing and believing in a miracle for Misty. I’m walking by faith, not by sight. After Jesus said to “Take away the stone,” at Lazarus’s tomb, he said, “Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?”(John 11:40) All Glory, Power and Might be to our Heavenly Father on High!!!
Darren-
I’m so blessed that Misty was a part of my life. Sending you so much love.
I’m so sorry for your loss Darren. I will continue to pray for you, Olivia, & your families. Just know you still have a lot of people that care & will be praying for all of you. Please let us know what you would like in memory of Misty.
Dear Darren,
I’m so sorry and my heart, too, is broken for you and for your family but I want to tell you that I have never seen such faithfulness in prayer and in devotion to God and to a wife/daughter. You and Claudia and Mike and your parents are shining examples of what families should be like. But even then, you went beyond your needs to encourage everyone around you and to spread the news that God is good and no matter what happens in life, He loves us and can be trusted. I don’t think people will lose faith…I think your continued trust in and praise to God will prove the truth you’ve been sharing all along and people will come to faith and even stronger trust because of that. In the meantime, know that you and your family are loved beyond words and are constantly being lifted up in our prayers.
Love,
Jim and Sandy
im still praying for you, olivia and the family
Dear Darren,
Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. Your faith, commitment, love, and compassion have truly changed my life. I am honored to call you a friend and I wish I had taken more time to know you better through all of these years. You do mean the world to me and I will continue to pray for you and your family. Misty is dancing in heaven with our father. And all of the loved ones who have gone before her are rejoicing in her presence and basking in her smile.
We love you,
Joy
Darren,
You, Olivia and the family are in my prayers. I know this time is SO difficult. Thank God He’s with us even in the hard times. I know Misty is free from pain and in a wonderful place-but that doesn’t take away the grief here. May the Holy Spirit be your great comforter now.
Darren and Olivia, and your family,
We are so saddened at this profound loss. There are no words that are right to say… we just want you to know that we are still holding your family up in prayer.
Your faith is of the ages… Thank you. You remind us, most beautifully, that even when we don’t know why, we can still know Who.
Believing. Praying.
Darlene and Family
I am praying for you and your precious daughter and Misty’s family. There really are no words… Just prayers for comfort, and supernatural peace that truly passes our understanding.
Lord cover Darren and Livi in your grace!
Darren and Livi:
God Bless you! All I want to do is wrap you in my arms and shelter you from this reality…I love you both and share in your loss. I want to remember and celebrate Misty’s life joyfully…Even though, I only know of Misty through this blog. I sensed that Misty brought alot of joy to all who shared a moment with her. This is a painful moment for us but it is also a joyous moment for our loved Misty…Stay strong Darren! You did as the Father commanded you…You loved your wife as you loved yourself…I am so blessed to have met you, Misty, and Livi through this blog.
I will continue to pray for you, Livi and the family..
love your sister in christ,
Jisenia
There are no words….only God. Our hearts are with you.
There are no words to express our sadness for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with your family. Praise God for your faithfulness.
Praying for you & your family.
I have tried to come up with words to add to my blog and they aren’t there. I have tried to think of something to say to you, Darren, and the words won’t come. I am waiting on Him. He is still in control! He still has time to work and revive Misty. I still believe He will. I stand with you warriors! I love our Daddy!
Darren,
Words cannot describe how I feel right now reading this. I am so filled to hear of your gain from Misty in your life, and so sad to hear of your loss. Your daughter is beautiful. Your faith is inspiring. You will be in my thoughts and on my heart as I lift you and Olivia before Him in the weeks to come.
In His love,
Lauren (Worrall)
Our dear friend and extended family
How do you put into words how sorry we are for you. But
when you have the faith and incredible support system you have it will help the loss. Your family was always that for me. Only a yard away when I needed support, advice or prayer. You have no idea how much that has meant to me over the years. You never know how your story and your strength touch others. Isn’t that part of the miracle of faith that we don’t walk alone,we are all just an extend3ed family in faith. We hold each other up in the hard times and celebrate the blessings.
Misty is now an angel watching over her beloved family and realizing how her sacrifice has touched so many. My prayer life has certainly been renewed, I spoke to a customer today who believe it or not had a husband who died from a brain tumor, She told me she’s walking in a brain tumor walk sunday in NY. I am pledging to you to become a part of that next year and raise funds in Misty’s name. I’ll let you know more as I get it. Needless to say, we love you and your mom and dad and grandparents and pray always for you. Please call if you need anything.
Sue, Lindsay,Gena,Skylar and Lexie
May God draw you close in your time of loss. Still praying for you and your family.
My heart is broken for you and Olivia and your family. May he lay your burden on us. May we carry parts of this grief for you. My spirit feels peace as well as grief for Misty’s life. May Jesus touch you and Olivia, protect you, guide you and cry with you. I’m so sorry Darren… I’m so sorry.
I love you, Darren… we’re all here for you.
Thank you for asking us to join you in this most-important part of your life, and for continuing to trust that God is in control.
I ask for his many abundant blessings on you and Olivia.
Coll
Darren,
We hope and pray that you and Olivia continue to be uplifted by the peace of Christ. We will continue to intercede in prayer on your behalf. We love you and pray that you are blessed with the opportunity to mourn Misty’s passing.
In love,
Douglas and Kathryn
I am so sorry she is gone Darren. What a beautiful day, when y’all are reunited again. I will continue to pray for you all. God Bless!
Darren,
My brother, mentor and friend; I am deeply sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, Olivia and the rest of your family.
Love you,
Max R
Darren,
You and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Your and Misty’s strength has been an inspiration to many, and lives will continue to be touched. Thank you for continuing to write even during these hard times. God Bless you Darren.
D –
Certainly not what I had hoped/expected to wake up to this morning… it’s taken me since 6AM pacific to even think about writing words. Sabrina and I grieve with you – our hearts hurt. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, Olivia, your families, friends, and this community, which Misty so richly sweetened.
Until we can embrace, may God’s Spirit make known to you the fullness of our hopes and dreams for your comfort, peace, and rest. Strength and courage, friend, and much respect.
Johnny and Sabrina
Darren….
Know that so many of us here at Fort Monmouth have held you in our thoughts, hearts, and in our prayers during this long haul. Know that we will do whatever is needed to help you and to be there for you.
God has healed Misty. Not in the way that we, as finite humans comprehend healing, but how He has chosen to have His healing occur.
A new body, ever beautiful, ever joy-filled, ever eternal, now before the Lord being able to see Him face-to-face.
You thought that she was beautiful before? Just try to imagine her now. :o)
Darren,
My words fall short of how so very sorry I am for you, Olivia and your entire family. Thank you for sharing and letting us all in, on such a personal period in your lives and thank you for allowing us all the priviledge of praying for your beautiful Misty.
Through your journey, you have consistently encouraged and increased the faith in so many. You have shown that we are all just a small piece of this big picture. I will forever continue to remain encouraged when I’m in the valley of darkness, because of the shining beacon of faith, love and hope you and Misty have shown.
Although I’m in California; You, Olivia and your family will be in my heart and prayers on Saturday and will continue to remain there, as you have for some time now.
In Peace,
Lisa
She lives definitly she lives that is our blessed assurance life eternal united with our father and our savior. So because she lives and there is still faith I still have hope.
Just because Jesus was delayed in reaching Lazerus it did not prevent his life from returning at the word of Jesus when he did arrive.
my prayer is still that Jesus is on his way, though delayed he is coming.
I hope this doesn’t seem trite….this song came into my heart as I was imagining Misty resting in Jesus’ arms.
What a fellowship, what a joy divine,
What a blessedness, what a peace is mine,
Leaning on the everlasting arms. Leaning,
leaning, safe and secure from all alarms;
leaning, leaning,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Oh, how sweet to walk in this pilgrim way,
leaning on the everlasting arms;
Oh, how bright the path grows from day to day,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
What have I to dread, what have I to fear,
Leaning on the everlasting arms;
I have blessed peace with my Lord so near,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Misty continues to lead by example that the most excellent Way is Jesus. She has received her crown, and is now safe and secure in her Savior’s arms. At times it feels like little comfort to those who are left behind. I am so sorry, Darren. I am so sorry, and I hope that in some way we, as a fellowship of believers, can walk alongside you and help bear the pain along with you and the entire family.
Much love, Katy & Josh Coleman
To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. We will continue to lift you and your family up in our prayers. Keep pressing on, brother, we love you!
I am so sorry to hear about Misty. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers…
My heart is so sad for you and your family right now. Keep holding to God’s unchanging hand. He will be your strength. She is completely healed now and walking freely with our Savior. My prayers are with you.
I am praying that God will draw you, Olivia, and all of those that are affected by Misty’s graduation. That God will pour His Love, His peace, and His Grace, that through this time of sorrow, He maybe glorified.
Isaiah 54:10
10 Though the mountains be shaken
and the hills be removed,
yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken
nor my covenant of peace be removed,”
says the LORD, who has compassion on you
I have no words, only tears.
My heart goes out to you and your family. God did heal Misty, just not in the way we thought He would. I can see Misty now…dancing and singing before her Heavenly Father. It fills me with joy…knowing that I will see her again some day. I am praying for you and your family.
Dear Darren,
I am so sorry that your beloved Misty is no longer here to enjoy this earthly life with you. Without even meeting her, I know that she must have been an incredible and godly wife, mother and friend. I am praying for you, Olivia and the rest of you family as you say goodbye to her…for now…until you see her again. Thank you for sharing this journey so openly with all of us out here, for giving us the privilege of praying for Misty and being a part of God’s work in your life.
I don’t even know what to say… My love goes out to you, Olivia, the entire family, and all of your friends. I cannot express all I feel right now towards you and that beautiful lady that I will meet in heaven one day. Praying for you.
Darren,
I just wanted to say that through Misty and how strong in the Lord both you and her were through this whole thing, you both have changed my life incredibly and im sure many others also. Just sending more encouragement while she is enjoying her time with the Lord. I am continuing on praying for you, Olivia, and both of your families. God Bless.
Darren,
Although I never met you or Misty, our paths have crossed at Messiah. I came across your blog a few months ago and have been praying alongside you since. Your steadfast strength and faith is a true blessing to many. I rejoice with you knowing that Misty is standing beside our Heavenly Father for eternity. May God bless you and your family during the days to come.
Darren,
I am sorry for your loss and the world’s loss in losing such a beautiful person. But I rejoice in knowing that Misty has lost nothing, and is in the presence of the Lord even as I type this. Your strength and faith has touched more people than you may ever comprehend, and you will continue to be in my prayers.
Much love,
Eric
Darren,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. You’re and your wife are an inspiration to many people!
-Joe
Darren,
My heart is grieved within me to hear the news. I lost my mother to cancer what will be nine years ago on October 15th. My heart breaks for Olivia, but is also encouraged because I’ve seen how God can work in this circumstance. Sometime, after this initial grieving time, if you’d be willing to talk to a young 20 year old, I’d love to talk.
May I add, our prayers were indeed answers. God did not ignore. God did not fail. And our faith was strong enough. God did heal Misty. She is healed now. She no longer suffers from pain, or cancer, of seizures. Misty is healed. God answers prayer. He is still good.
Praising the God who gives and takes away…
Steph
me again. just thinking.
my mom would have been 60 years old this year. maybe she’s there in heaven welcoming misty, and taking care of her. you never know. maybe they’re worshiping God together, talking about their love for the new jersey seashore, and smiling about their daughters and loving husbands. who knows?
God is good. Amen.
See you saturday.
Darren & Family,
I pray that God may keep you strong during this time of greif. Misty is healed and may not be with us physically but her spirit is still alive.
Love,
Stephanie Michel
Darren:
We love you. Thank you for sharing a bit of Misty’s life with us. We pray for Olivia for the years of personal Misty-love she will miss, and are grateful for the gift you have given her by your daily writings. All of us feel your pain, even though most may not have had the same experience as you. Hopefully I can be there on Saturday with you. Michael
Darren,
I’m saddened and sorry for the loss of Misty, however, we all should be rejoicing because we know that she is in a better place. Period. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Andrew S.
You have shown such wisdom and grace … it is inspiring and beautiful … praying for strength that is not your own … w/ love – nicole and chris
I am so sorry. I will continue to keep you, Olivia and your family in my prayers.
Sarah
Darren,
i’m so sorry. i love you guys so much. always in my prayers
natasha
Darren, thank you for being a shining example of faith for us all. Praying comfort and rest over you and your family.
I am sorry. Darren, your faith teaches me how to be a better man, a better husband, a better father, and most of all a better Christian. My prayers will not cease, but be redirected to your comfort and healing and courage. I will pray daily for Olivia. I know you only for this blog, but we are connected in the family of God and for my wife and I today, we mourn too, with you. May God bless you and keep you safe delivering courage when you are scared, comfort when you are hurting, and carry through these rough days.
I know you know the verses, but we know that Misty is in no more pain, and God is a great God. every piece of Misty’s life and your life are in His hand and part of His plan and I believe you will continue to see it as you have already in so many ways. I am here in Israel seeing how God held His people in so many ways and through so many struggles. He will do the same for you. Rest in His arms. He loves you. I will continue to pray for you. I won’t be back for the service, but I am praying for your family and if there is any way we can be of help, please don’t hesitate to ask.
I am thinking of you and your family today, as I have done everyday since I first got wind of your story. I wish you strength to get through this difficult time. Your an amazing family.
Over the past thirteen years you have experienced a great love, a love so great many can not comprehend. Never forget the good times, and more importantly remember what strengthened you during the bad. As you know you are a lucky man but luck has nothing to do with it. God has blessed you with many gifts and although one may be “gone” it will never be lost…
Two of those gifts stand beside you in body and spirit. Misty will never leave your side and Olivia will carry on Misty’s great name!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND OLIVIA!!! I EXPECT TO HEAR GREAT THINGS ABOUT YOU TWO FOR DECADES TO COME!!!!!!!!!
I am so sorry for your loss. God has healed Misty, just not in the way we all wanted. You are an amazing minister of His word. I am praying for you, Olivia, and your families.
Darren, our hearts are with you and your family. You are at the forefront of our prayers. May God continue to be your strength.
“”The measure of a life is not its duration, but rather its donation.”
What an incredible example Misty’s life was to others…even those who never had the chance to meet her. Darren, we are so sorry for your loss…prayers and love for you and Olivia. Love,Chris,Cheryl,Ian and Zoe
Darren, I am so sorry for your loss, but your ministry is an inspiration. Amidst all of your strife, you have remained a faithful servant. Thank you for sharing with us this very personal journey. My family and I will continue praying for you. God bless.
Darren and family,
God has a ryhme and reason for everything. Mistys in a better place now filled with love and joy and watching down on you and your beautiful daughter. Shes your angel in the sky. God has healed her in the greatest way possible. Stay strong, and keep your faith alive. God bless you. Ill never stop praying for you.
Darren,
I am at a loss for words today. I’ve sat down to write this many times but couldn’t put my feeling into words. I still can’t. My heart is heavy. Misty STILL Rocks!!
I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your family, especially your little girl.
There is nothing i can say to ease the hurt. But know you are loved and any need you may have will be happily met.
My condolences to you and your family.
I’m so sorry Darren. You and Olivia are in my prayers.
Darren,
I only know you through your blog, but I feel like I’ve known you forever after following you through these last tough months. It is with tears running down my face that I tell you that you are a true inspiration to me as I seek His face. May you hold on to what is good and feel the love of God all the days of your life. Misty fought the good fight and you have run the race with her. I am sure the Lord has welcomed her home saying, “Well done thy good and faithful servant.”
Carmen Bennett
Louisville, GA
Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. As I sit here in tears, I think of the great times we had while working together. I will never forget the things she taught me. Continuing to pray for you and your family.
XOXOXO,
Tracey
Darren, my dear friend.. MIsty is healed now.. not in the way you wanted, but in the way GOd planned. She is with him now and totally healed!! We just all need to use her life and what has happened for His glory. It is amazing how God has given you such a peace, I know He has His arms around you and is bringing you through, He is with you at every minute. LEan on Him as you have been faithfully this whole time. YOur sister in Christ.. Christina
I’m so sorry, my prayers are with you and your family.
Darren,
I am a complete stranger that came across this blog a few months ago after my uncle passed away suddenly. There were other negative factors that also contributed to feelings of pain and sadness but I made a choice to stay positive. God’s plan is not always our plan and that is often hard to accept as you know. I have been praying for your entire family since I first starting reading and I am heartfully sorry for your loss. Misty will be with you and Olivia always. Your words were and are truly a catalyst and inspiration to remain faithful. For that, I thank you.
~kara
Darren, we will continue to pray for you & Olivia. Thank you for sharing Misty’s story which has touched so many of us. May God continue to bless you and work in wonderful ways in your life, as we know He will.
I am sure I can say nothing that hasn’t been said better before. Only that you know we were, and are praying for you.
Darren, my dear friend -
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My heart aches for you and will continue to over the coming weeks, months and years. Know that if you need anything, please do not hesitate to let me know. I am here for you.
My deepest condolences,
Cat
I have checked your blog daily since July and fell in love with your family and have been inspired by your amazing endless faith. I am so sad and so sorry for your loss. You’ve all touched so many lives. We are praying for you and Olivia and your family! God Bless!
Darren.
:[ I want to give you and Olivia a big hug. What is your address, at least let me send you a card or something. I can’t even find the right words because there are no words. I mean, I’ve lost so many people who have meant everything to me to illness and I just don’t know how you’ve managed to be ok. When my sister died in april, my world crashed and I still can’t even stand up straight. She was my everything as Misty was to you and I don’t know how you can have the strength to just be ok. You have to understand its ok, not to be ok, especially now. I’m glad you can feel comforted by God, but you should also watch out to make sure you aren’t blocking your emotions. Let yourself feel what you must. I just don’t want you to explode/implode whatever it could be.
Darren,
Through this blogsite your faith and courage have been on display and serve as an example for the world to see. Your strength and love as a family is incredible. My heart breaks for you and I pray for your continued courage. Fondly,
Todd
Darren, you guys have been such an inspiration to so many people. I am so sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for you. Love, Jeff and Sarah
There are definitely no words but you know that all of the love, support of all of your friends and Gods strength will get you through.
Love you so much, soo soo much
Darren,
What a beautiful eulogy for Misty. This world is surly going to miss her. I know God has big plans for her in heaven. Your whole family has been in my prayers since I found out. I will be praying especially for Olivia. I can understand that whole situation of trying to make her understand what is going on.
In HIM,
Eric Fowler, Dannielle, Maeve, Brody, & Fiona
Hi Darren,
I just wanted to let you know that Misty was in my psysical science class at Calvary. I didn’t know her well but I remember her. She was quiet and very sweet. I heard about your blog in July and have been keeping up with it since.
My thoughts are with you and Olivia. I’m so sorry for your loss.
my heartfelt condolences go you out to you, olivia and to your’s and misty’s family. your and misty’s faith has been an inspiration to us all. with much love i extend you darren.
brian j.
Dear Brother,
We don’t know each other in person, but for the last 2 months I’ve been reading your blog everyday and knowing the bad taste of having a loved one suffering with cancer. I am praying for you and Olivia and your family, May God give you more and more of the good things you’ve expressed in this blog during all this time, you’re over a solid rock… God Bless you and your family!
Francisco DC – Springfield, VA
Our prayers are with you, Darren.
“Home Free” by Wayne Watson
I’m trying hard not to think you unkind
But Heavenly Father
If you know my heart
Surely you can read my mind
Good people underneath the sea of grief
Some get up and walk away
Some will find ultimate relief
Chorus
Home Free, eventually
At the ultimate healing we will be Home Free
Home Free, oh I’ve got a feeling
At the ultimate healing
We will be Home Free
Out in the corridors we pray for life
A mother for her baby, A husband for his wife
Sometimes the good die young
It’s sad but true
And while we pray for one more heartbeat
The real comfort is with you
You know pain has little mercy
And suffering’s no respecter of age, of race or position
I know every prayer gets answered
But the hardest one to pray is slow to come
Oh Lord, not mine, but Thy will be done
Let it be…
I am so sorry for your loss. Misty is in heaven healthy…singing, & dancing now…waiting for all of us!! You are an amazing man. I admire you. You & little Olivia are in my prayers. I love you cuz. xoxo
Darren,
As I was told about Misty this morning, my thoughts and prayers went out to you and your family. As others, you don’t know me, but my daughter knows Arielle through Calvary. Through your blogs that were shared with so many, again you have truly been an inspiration to me and my family. I pray that God comforts you at this time and know Misty is at rest with the Lord!!
God bless you and your family,
Jackie
Darren,
I have been praying for you and Olivia and your extended family and thinking of you all day. What stands out in my mind is your incredible love for Misty. Honestly, I have known very few men so completely devoted to their wives … who really take their vows and their commitment to love so seriously. You are a picture in my mind of Christ’s love and commitment to His bride, the body of Christ. I am blessed to have been and continue to be on this journey with you. You are a warrior and God is so pleased with His son, Darren. Olivia already has a mighty legacy of living for Him. That is an amazing gift.
Thank you for sharing your life with your brothers and sisters in Christ. I feel like I know you. That is how it should be in the body of Christ. It has been awesome to witness His love for you and Misty and Olivia poured out from around the world.
I look forward to God’s plan continuing to unfold in your lives. It can only be amazing! Still praying …
With abounding love, Debra
Darren,
We are so sorry to hear about Misty. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I want to thank you for writing everyday. Your strength and courage has been truly inspiring.
We love you so much!
Lauren and Gabe Rivera
May God hold you and your family close during this time of great loss! Your faith is our blessing.
I hope one day Olivia will be able to read these comments and rejoice in the way her mother touched so many people she never met. I’m reminded that now we see dimly but one day we will understand. To God goes the glory.
Tracy in Michigan
Misty is a continual testimony. What a blessing her life has been to so many, and will continue to be so.
We love you and will remain faithful in prayer for you and the family.
hey darren, im so sorry when i heard about misty i just froze up. i know i have met her a couple of times and i really don’t know her, i feel like i have gotten to know her so well just by praying for her each and every day. i know its hard to loose some body and i know you have the strongest faith i have ever seen in my life. you just have to believe that misty is now living the dream of every christian. she is with our father in heaven. misty has no more pain anymore and i know she misses you and olivia too. she has heard the words we all long to hear come from god’s mouth “Well done my good and faithful servant” she’s looking down on you right now and she loves you just like you love her. one day you’ll be united again to live happily ever after. im still praying for you and olivia. i know you can make it through this. you have made it through everything else and remember she’s happier now than she ever has been living the dream of all christians. i love you guys!
God Bless,
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This song has also come to mind -
I CAN ONLY IMAGINE
http://www.esnips.com/doc/e3ba9cd0-5c10-4128-9c3c-b355e4b77d95/I-can-Only-Imagine,-MM
I can only imagine what it will be like
When I walk by your side
I can only imagine what my eyes will see
When your face is before me
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
Surrounded by your glory
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Halellujah,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
I can only imagine when that day comes
And I find myself standing in the Son
I can only imagine when all I will do
Is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
Surrounded by your glory,
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Halellujah,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine, yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine, yeah, yeah, yeah
Surrounded by your glory,
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Hallelujah,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine, yeah
I can only imagine, yeah, yeah
I can only imagine, Yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine, Ohh yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine when all I will do
is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine
Darren, you and misty have touched my life, though we’ve never met. I’m a friend of heather albert’s. we’ve been praying for your wife for months, yet only recently visited the blog. Its amazing how big this has become. its literally pouring over onto friends and relatives of mine… and i can only imagine how many others could say the same thing.
When i lost my dad suddenly in a fire, the hardest part was the why. Its so encouraging to see your faith in action through these letters. To see little answers to those why questions…. There will be long lines of folks in heaven, telling you, Misty & Olivia the story of how they came to know the Lord because of what your family endured, and how well you endured it.
God is there is the quiet, in the space, in the moments to come… He is there already, preparing a place for you to rest in Him. We have hope. God has amazing plans for you… amazing.
Be blessed, we continue to pray for strength, perseverance, knowing the loving arms of Grace will wrap around you & your lovely daughter.
jill
Heaven is a sweeter place.
Darren,
You and your family have my prayers and condolences. I can only imagine the pain you are going through and will continue to go through. We’ve never met, but your and Misty’s faith throughout all this has been more of an inspiration to me than my words could possibly express. Thank you.
God bless
Dear Darren,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
God Bless,
Erik and Debbie Jones
May God be your strength in the days, weeks, years to come! Thank you for sharing your journey with us and we will continue to walk with you if you will allow!
Love,
HollyAnn
You are in my prayers. If there is anything I can do, let know.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Darren,
I have not commented until now but I have been reading and joining in prayer with everyone. That peace that you speak of is a familiar feeling to me. I thank God for filling you with that same peace and I pray that he will continue to do so in the days to come, for you, Olivia, and the rest of your family.
Karinn
Darren we have been praying for all of you .will continue to do so ,you,Olivia & both your families are in our hearts,thoughts,prayers
I’m sorry to hear about your recent loss. I don’t even know you, but I feel your pain. I know it may seem hard but some day you will get over this and one day down the road you’ll see each other again. Good luck to you.
Darren…
You are an image of Christ. I was just thanking God today that you are alive as the example that you are. God has set aside unimaginable treasure for you in heaven. Truly, your life and this situation has glorified God beyond what anyone can see.. but also in ways that we can all see. I’m so sorry that she is gone from here… but rejoicing that she is perfected and smiling with her Father. Thank you for choosing to live your life to the with so much purpose….
So much love, my brother,
Tara
Im still praying. And remember, Misty is healed now, and she is with Jesus, loving Him, and praising Him, having a wonderful time… waiting for you :)
-Aleta
http://www.blospot.com/aleta-jade
Darren,
I am so sorry you have lost your best friend. Thank you for allowing my family the privilege of getting to know such a woman of faith through your blog. Daily, your faith has been an inspiration to me, my friends and family. We will continue to pray for you and Olivia and your entire family each day. May God continue to give you His peace which passes understanding.
Love,
Amy Dunphy and family
Please know that my heartfelt prayers are with you at the passing of your beautiful, strong and courageous wife. May God bless you for your unyeilding faith. Look to Jesus for the healing of your heart.
Love,
Florence
Darren,
I am so sorry for you and Olivia. I do not understand why Misty was not healed. I will continue to pray for you and your family. I do know God loves us and wants us to trust him in all things, even those things we do not understand. I pray that God will continue to give you peace during this very difficult time.
Jack
Thank you for sharing your story & for bringing faith back into my life.. I never met Misty, but she sounds like someone who you couldn’t help but love.. Praying for you & Oliva tonight..
hi…you don’t know me. i found your website through a friend. your story touched my heart, especially since my husband and i lost our baby girl in june. this verse was a great encouragement to me.
ps. 37:23-24
the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delights in his way; when he falls, he will not be hurled headlong, because the Lord is the one who holds his hand.
we will be praying for you and olivia.
Darren,
I am so sorry that Misty’s battle with this terrible cancer has ended. There are no words that I can say that haven’t already been said by so many. God has plans for all of us that sometimes we don’t understand or find so hard to accept. The only comfort that we can take through all of this, is that Misty was always in His care and she is in a place where her suffering is finally over. Know that she will always be looking over you,Olivia and the rest of her family as one of God’s angels. You and Olivia will be in my prayers in the days ahead. I know that God will continue to surround you and your family with His love.
May today there be peace within.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love.
It is there for each and every one of us. ~Mother Teresa
…The love of a lifetime…the gift of Olivia…the peace in the midst of the storm…the promises of God…
sing, dance, praise, and love
“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you suffered a little while will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power forever and ever. Amen.”
-1 Peter 5: 10,11
Darren, Misty suffered a little while here on earth from brain cancer, but now God has brought her to himself and restored her. She is now strong and, like we have been praying for, cancer free. She HAS BEEN HEALED, God has healed her in heaven where she now sits rejoicing in his glory. TO HIM BE THE POWER FOREVER AND EVER. AMEN.
Darren,
God has given you an incredible peace. I pray that peace will continue, and that you feel God’s grace and love every day. I appreciate the way you have let us into you and your family’s lives. It has been a life changing encouragement that cannot be described. God has used you and Misty in all of this; and He continues to do so. I am blessed and honored to have been apart of your journey (I will continue to visit). Thank you for your faith, strength, compassion, and love in Christ. It has carried all of us. Misty and your entire family will always have a place in our hearts and prayers. God has something very special in store for Olivia! God is still in control!!!
We love you. God Bless!
In His Love,
Christina (and family)
I am so encouraged by your continued faith. I am convicted from the spirit of how little faith I have. I will be praying for you and your family. Today is my brothers birthday he died 16 months ago, the pain is still real but the hope is greater!
love a sister in Christ,
Rachel
Darren,
Although we have not posted before, we have been following every step and continually praying for Misty’s healing. Our hearts and prayers are with you. We are still praying and believing for a resurrection miracle.
Love,
Bill, Cheryl, and Kami
God Bless you Darren and your family. Misty is in a better place now. Shes looking down on you smiling and watching over you until it is your time to join her in the kingdom of heaven. There are no words to even explain how this website has touched my life spiritually. God works in great ways. My deepest sympathy to you.
Darren, Your faith is so encouraging and God has given you such amazing strength. My prayers are with you, Olivia, and your family. Romans 5:1-5
I don’t know you, you don’t know me. I was introduced to your trial through my fiance’s friend. I am a single father, and although we are strangers, we are brothers in Christ and as I have read your blog the past week, and prayed for Misty and you and your daughter, I have been encouraged deeply as a man, a father and soon to be husband. I will continue to pray. Jesus shows in you.
Darren & Family,
We are very sorry to hear about your loss. We know Misty is with our Lord. She is completed healed. One day soon we all be together for every with our Lord. Your web-site has touched our lives. May God continue to give you peace, rest and strength each new day. Our deepest sympathy to you all.
Now Misty loves you and Olivia with a new love. All the love she already had for you both while on Earth is now merged with the unfathomable love of God. She feels nothing but this new love and longs to share it with you everyday.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, for I am with my Lord very much alive.
Darren and Little Olivia,
We are so sorry for your loss, I checked every day and said a prayer for Misty. We all admire your faith and the wonderful husband you are. You are the best example of “in sickness and in health” I have ever met. We all send our prayers for your comfort. When I picture Misty it will always be looking beautiful as she looked in Genevieve and Justin’s wedding like the picture on your page. Love
Ann, Christopher, Sean, DJ,& Edward Martin, Joanna & Jay Crespo
Dear Darren,
Our hearts are also sorrowful as we pass through this difficult journey with you. May you find comfort, and yes…some joy in knowing that for such a time as this Jesus came. He knew the most difficult thing about life would be the passing of those we love. That may be the reason Christ opened His ministry by reading these words of scripture from Isaiah 61:1-3
“The Spirit of the Lord is on me,
because He has anointed me to preach good news to the poor.
He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted…
To comfort all who mourn and provide for those who grieve in Zion.
To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning
and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”
Indeed, all that has happened, mattered to Jesus. He loves you and your precious family for which he provided this blessed hope. Your loving commitment to Misty and Olivia…and to your God, will cause us to always remember.
We love you, faithful friend,
Ken & Debby Walsh
Dear Darren,
Praying that our faithful God will continue to give you peace, comfort and strength in the days ahead. Your web-site is truly an inspiration!
With loving thoughts and deepest sympathy,
Robert and Nadia Nigro
Darren,
As I sit here trying to swallow the rather large lump in my throat I pray that I can express to you my true feelings. My husband and I have been reading your blog since almost the beginning and have come to feel like we are long distant friends. I would call or run to my husband to tell him of the positive things Misty was doing and then come together in prayer on the hard days. I sobbed when I read your post, I just couldn’t believe it and then you said you weren’t mad or angry at anyone. I wanted to stand with you in faith and trust that God made the right decision……..I faultered, I got upset I got mad, it wasn’t fair you both walked the path that God has chosen for you just like the bible said. You loved, you prayed, you ministered to others, and others saw Christ within both of you. Then why take her, was that really the best thing? I started to question and started to doubt (yes the devil was making his way in) then I started reading other’s comments especially the “anonymous” ones where he/she was still praying for a resurrection and standing still on God’s word and I was doubting. Here her husband is at peace and still praying for others – Amazing!!!! yet humbling and here I mourn for a woman I never met, a little girl I’ve come to adore, and a man who carried the weight of the world on his shoulders and praised God everyday for it. I will continue to pray for peace and comfort
Thank you for sharing your life with us and taking us on a journey that most would’ve quit early on because it was too hard. May God wrap his love around you and your beautiful daughter.
With Love
Lorraine, Matt, Erica, Tyler, Maddison, Alex and Joseph
All day I have been thinking of the words to say. Everytime I log on I am amazed my the number of lives you have touched. The comments continue to pour out. The ability you will have to show Olivia how many lives her mommy has touched with her story. What a great life she made. I prayer for you and your little girl. I pray that you are strengthen daily. You and your family are very loved!
I have no words of my own to say, but the words of this song have helped me many times.
Come Quickly by Tommy Walker and addl lyrics by
Shannon Wexelberg
He’ll wipe our tears away, When dawns that final day
All mourning, death and pain will fade away
And then we all will rise and Meet Him in the sky
When Jesus comes and takes us all away.
I’m listening for the sound when the trumpet play it loud, I’m watching for the clouds to roll away
‘Cause this day it is my hope, It’s all I’m waiting for
When Jesus comes and takes us all away.
If we must say good-bye, It’s only for a while
But how I’ll long to see you ’til that day
Then we’ll dance on streets of gold and worship Christ the Lord
Yes, you’ll be there to greet me on that day.
Come quickly, come quickly, Lord
Come quickly, come quickly, Lord
This world is not my home
Don’t wait anymore
‘Cause this day it is my hope
It’s all I’m waiting for
When my Jesus comes
We’ll all be home to stay.
Darren, my prayers are with you and your precious Olivia. Rest in His arms.
Dear Darren,
I’m so very sorry that you and Olivia will be without Misty for a while. This is not what I was hoping and praying for. I was hoping and praying that God would step in and do the truly miraculous in Misty’s physical body… that we would have a testimony service and declare how God brought Misty from the brink of death to complete healing… that many doctors would see the unmistakable hand of God! I’m so very disappointed. Oh God, she was too young.
Your ways are not our ways, we see that yet again here. What moves Your hand to heal? Why didn’t the healing come this time? Selah.
These familiar questions of mine I suppose will have to wait until I reach the other side of the grave.
I’m glad you had many years together. I’m glad Olivia was born. I’m glad Misty had you, Darren, as her husband in this life. You are a great example of what a husband should be like, loving your wife as Christ loves the church.
Darren, I offer you my heartfelt condolences, my prayers, and whatever support I can provide to you and your family, now and in the future. May God’s blessings be upon you and your family, especially now.
Darren,
I am so sorry about your loss. God bless you and your sweet baby girl as you move forward. Misty touched alot of people during these days that we have come to know her. A lot of people will have learned so much about faith and trusting a loving God throughout all things in life. Take care,
Blessings, Justine
Lord, I too pray for Darren, I pray that you’d comfort him as you did Mary and Martha. I pray for all of those who are grieving with Darren tonight. But Lord my prayer doesn’t stop there. I pray with the knowledge that THE GOD I SERVE, the God I love, the God that loves me, IS GREATER THAN DEATH. I pray to the God who took the sleeping daughter by the hand and called to her “My child, get up!” I pray to the God who stopped a funeral procession, and with a word restored life to the widow’s only son.
I pray.
I pray that while Satan and his demons rest, with their backs turned, that life reaches Misty. I pray for fresh blood in her veins, breath in her lungs, thoughts in her mind, and a rhythm to her heart. I pray that the Lord sees our mourning, and weeps with us, but that He say to us, “Did I not tell you that that if you believe we will see the Glory of God”
Jesus, every good and perfect thing comes from you. Lord we believe that Misty’s work here on Earth is not yet finished. She has glory to bring to you. She will be an example of the power of God here. Someone who we can point to and say, “You see her? She was dead, but God, God raised her from the dead! Praise God!”
Lord, you and you alone have the power to raise her, Jesus, by your stripes.
I still believe.
Darren,
The three of you have been and of course will continue to be in our prayers. Our hearts break for any pain that you and Olivia are experiencing, but rejoice in the knowledge that Misty is worshiping in a place where we can only long to be. We love you.
Darren,
I don’t know you personally, but my cousin went to your college and had your blog linked to hers for prayer. I cannot imagine what you must be going through, but I pray that God will carry you and Olivia in His loving embrace and see you throughout this difficult time. Your blog brought me to tears, as it is such a blessing to read the obvious love, devotion, and love for Christ that you and Misty had. Her spirit will live on in you and your beautiful girl. God bless you and your family!
My 5 year old brought home his weekly bible verse yesterday, God is Love; I john 4:8. That told me all I needed to hear. Oh how simply and true, presented to me by my child. I know that God and your child will help see you through as well. My prayers are still with you and your family.
hey Darren,
I’ve watched and read for many months, praying and believing with you. And now i grieve with you. But as has probably been said to you many times previously, “We do NOT grieve as those who have no hope…” You and Misty’s faith, your hope and your life are contagious…I’ve been built from them all and i don’t even think you knew.
Keep Misty’s life, her hope, her faith contagious.
Chad Smith
Bethany Church, Wyckoff
Through out all of this, I find myself mourning for a woman whom I’ve never met, yet grown to love. I am mourning for little Olivia who had to let go of her Mommy, so that she (Misty) could be embraced in the arms of her Almighty Savior. I’m deeply humbled, yet a little saddened that Darren had to let go of his greatest love, his wife, his companion and dear friend, so that she became totally healed.
Oh how I love the LORD. He reminded me that prayers have been answered! We prayed, we fast, we stood on the WORD for her healing. GOD kept that promise, because she is now healed! What a *gift*. No more pain, sickness, bodily destruction. Misty is healed, whole and complete now! When the medical doctors gave up, gave her two weeks to live, GOD gave her an additional two and a half months to be a witness here on this earth. He gave us more time with her. What a gift! I felt the excitement when Darren would post the wonderful things they had done that particular day. Or how Olivia would give up berries for her Mommy. Precious memories made because GOD granted that additional time.
And while a part of me weeps for a woman who I personally didn’t know, or for that matter her entire family, I can’t help but be reminded all the miracles that did take place simply because I was privileged enough to have these wonderful GODLY people introduced into my life from one of Darren’s co-workers. And although we’ve never met, I have grown to really love and care for them as if they truly are a part of my family. Another *gift* granted by our wonderful GOD for me.
I will always be thankful and grateful to GOD for placing these incredible people of tremendous faith in my life. Thankful for it deepened my prayer closet with the LORD. And while life sometimes allows one to get distracted in the mundane every day ways of life, I (and I would often cry out to GOD “whom am I?”) would find myself on my knees crying, begging and pleading for GOD to restore Misty’s health here on the earth.
No one will ever know for sure (I’ll call us the “no-names”) how many lives were touched some how and in some way by this family’s testimony of faith, hope, trust and love. But GOD knows! Praise Him! Misty was called home, to her rest, yet her life truly does live on here!
I admire and deeply respect you Darren. A man who opened up his personal world to be of encouragement to all of us who traveled down this journey with you. Darren, GOD used you, as much as He used Misty to be a witness to how GREAT our GOD really is! In time of mourning, you still reached out to comfort us. There are no words to adequately describe who you are. All I’ll say is this, you are simply amazing!
This isn’t the end of a chapter to one of the greatest stories ever told. GOD used you in mighty ways in this season of life. And while GOD who created and knows all, has so many more wondrous plans waiting yet for you.
You, Olivia and your entire family are permanently on my prayer list. And although I won’t be able to attend in NJ to celebrate the life and love of your beautiful Misty on Saturday, I will set my clock to be in prayer for you all and give thanks and glory to GOD during that time.
I am so humbled by your bravery, your grace and your dedication and devotion, not only to your beautiful wife, but to our precious LORD. You are a great man! GOD raised you up, Darren, to be the one man HE needed, to travel down this incredible road with Misty during this time.
I am so humbled and grateful to be blessed by GOD to witness from afar that journey. Now, when I ask myself “Whom am I?” well now I really know. GOD took me down this incredible road of faith, trust, hope and love to strengthen my own personal walk with Him. For this, Darren, I’ll always be thankful not only to Him, but to Misty and you as well!
GOD used you both to touch my life in a tremendous, yet profound way. For this, I am…..so thankful.
So, thank you…..friend.
~Cindy~
Darren, our hearts are with you during this time. We continue to lift you and your family up in our prayers. Keep leaning on God and pressing on for Him to be a light in this world that needs Him. We love you brother!
We love you and praying for overflowing peace and joy.
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 13 Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. 14 We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15 According to the Lord’s own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 18 Therefore encourage each other with these words.
Darren, I know you already know these words. Misty will be raised again with a body that cannot be touched by cancer or any other hideous disease. I am sorry for your loss.
Darren,
We never know why. Maybe one day God will explain everything to us when we have the capability to understand it all. I just want to thank you and Misty for being that living example of faith. We read about faith in our bibles, we read the stories and learn about the characters. But sometimes they are still distant. It seem like because they are in the Bible there must have been something special about them or God must have helped them in a special way. But you have shown us all that great men and women of faith still exist today. That they are ordinary people dealing with life in an extraordinary way. I have never prayed for so long for the same thing, as I have for Misty’s healing. Not for myself or anyone else. I never realized I could stay focused on one thing for so long. Thank you for helping to reveal something new in me. You have reached so many people all around the country in such a special way. All of your readers faith has increased so much because you decided to be unselfish. Thank you for listening to the Lord. Maybe one day God will explain to you how great an act of faith and inspiration your work on this web-site has been. I will continue to pray for your peace and strength and showers of blessings on Olivia.
May you feel God’s continued peace! I pray for comfort for you during the times of intense grief when you feel you can’t go on. My mom died several years ago (I was only 25 when she died)and there were times the pain was so great and there was nothing anyone could do about it. Sometimes grief is a journey we must travel alone, supported by the prayers of others. We will continue to lift you to God’s throne of grace, asking Him to fill you with peace and comfort!
As I sit here, with tears in my eyes, I feel that life isn’t fair! Life isn’t fair, but God is faithful! You have been a great testimony of God’s faithfulness! I pray you can feel God wrapping His arms around you and Olivia!
DEAR DARREN,
WE ARE SAD, YET, AS CHRISTIANS WE KNOW THAT OUR FUTURE AND HOPE IS NOT JUST HERE ON EARTH.. ONE DAY WE WILL SEE HIS BEAUTIFUL FACE JUST AS MISTY IS SEEING IT EVEN NOW… OUR PRAYERS, LOVE AND STRENGTH GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
THANK YOU DARREN FOR SHARING YOUR HEART WHEN YOU WERE GOING THROUGH SUCH A DIFFICULT TIME. YOU HAVE BEEN AN INSPIRATION TO ME AS WELL AS SO TO SO MANY OTHERS…
GOD BLESS YOU, MARJORIE KANTOR
You have my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and I hope your heart heals soon. Hugs
Darren,
Does Jesus care when my heart is pained,
Too deeply for mirth and song;
As the burdens press, and the cares distress,
And the way grows weary and long?
Does Jesus care when I’ve said good-bye,
To the dearest on earth to me,
And my sad heart aches till it nearly breaks,
Is it aught to Him? Does He see?
Oh yes, He cares, I know He cares,
His heart is touched with my grief,
When the days are weary, the long nights dreary,
I KNOW my Savior cares.
Love and Prayers always,
Alan & Conni Barber
I never understood the impact of the death of a close loved one until my dad passed away this April. Found out he had cancer in February, gone two months later. Feels like a hole ripped out of your heart. The relationship between a father and daughter is indeed different from a husband and wife (and I cannot imagine losing my husband!!) but the loss and grief just as great.
Many prayers as you continue this journey and experience the ebbs and flows.
Moira Sept 25 11;00am
Darren;My deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. My prayers will continue for you and Olivia that our lord Jesus will help you all get thru this difficult time. Peace and Love Moira
Even from thousands of miles away, I’ve been left speechless by the leadership and Christ like behaviour you, Darren, have shown this entire situation. While I mourn with you now, I rejoice knowing that your words and actions have brought immeasurable glory to Christ even when faced with immeasurable pain. You have let your light shine before men. The 296 people who have posted before me have clearly seen that light. I know hundreds, if not thousands more will also.
Darren–i am so incredibly sorry for your loss of misty. what an amazing woman. she has brought immeasurable glory to God, and leaves a legacy that will continue to reveal Christ to many. i pray that you will be filled with peace and abundant comfort during this time of grieving. we will continue praying for you and your precious olivia. thank you for making Christ known through your pain and heartache.
I have been praying that God would send you a message from Misty… so that you may have peace.
The kids have been talking about how Misty is running and dancing in heaven. They are rejoicing that her suffering is no more.
Misty is @ home with streets made of gold and free of all disease and a love and peace that one cannot imagine. A new season has begun for you, God bless you and your family!
Darren – God heals in different ways. Sometimes, as with Misty’s cancer, it’s not so clear. But let us consider that he healed her the first time several years ago and allowed her to leave a richer legacy and experience a deeper love with the birth of Olivia and your shared moments of the last several years. He also made her journey in the last few months a healing grace for so many of us who have watched how, with Job-like reverence, you have never lost faith. I do believe the peace you experienced in the hospital during her last moments was his healing grace being manifested. And I also believe that he will continue the healing with you, Olivia and others who loved Misty as the sense of grief and loss makes way for all the beautiful memories you made and shared together.
Remember that no one is dead who is still remembered by the living.
I’ld also like to share the following. I hope it provides some comfort to you as you find your way through the next few days, weeks, months…
God Bless you and Olivia, and God Speed to Misty as she joins her Creator.
All is Well
———–
“Death is nothing at all, I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference in your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effort, without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind just because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere near, just around the corner. All is well.”
You, Misty and your families are a testimony to faith, enduring love, and overwhelming strength. Thank you for sharing this. You and your family continue to be in my prayers and I celebrate the Amazing Woman that is now with our Maker.
Peace and Love.
For Misty…
http://worthwalkingtoward.blogspot.com/2008/09/misty.html
Darlene and Family
I am so sorry for your lost, you and your family are in my prayers.
Carolyn and Family
I’m sorry for your loss and am praying for your family. God has plans for each of us. I believe that He keeps us here on earth until we have fulfilled His plan and then he calls us to be with Him. I recommended before and still recommend this book, 90 Minutes In Heaven, for a detailed depiction of what Misty is experiencing right now. Heaven is more joyful than what any of us can imagine and I know that someday you will be reunited again. :o)
I can’t begin to imagine what you’re going through right now. Your commitment and faith in God’s plan has been an incredible witness at the most difficult of times. I pray you and your family continue to experience peace and the presence of God!
Darren,
Continue to have faith stay strong in Christ. Mistys still here with you not in the physical form any longer but her spirit still remains with you. Remember her when your pouring that cup of coffee, wake up and wish her a goodmorning, shes still there. Shes so proud of your strength and I know shes more than thankful for everything you had done for her, you made her final days here on earth amazing. Theres a chorus from a song that i truly love that reminds me of my loved ones when they pass, and its more than true I hope you hold it in the back of your mind and when your feeling down just think about it and no that God has a plan and purpose for everything he puts in your path.
I’m already there
Take a look around
I’m the sunshine in your hair
I’m the shadow on the ground
I’m the whisper in the wind
I’m your imaginary friend
And I know I’m in your prayers
Oh I’m already there
I love you, take care of your beautiful daughter and see Misty through her. Stand strong in your faith cause your not alone. God Bless
I just got word tonight about mistys passing, Iam sorry for your lost i still cant belive that she is gone, she was my friend, and i loved her very much. I know that god let us meet for a reason, and i am glad that he did. I just want to let you know that i love you and kiss that little olivia for me.God bless you and the family.
Darren, I am so sorry for your loss of this precious woman. I know she is the love of your life…But know that Jesus even loves her more. He will keep her safe for you until you are reunited, joyfully waiting to see you again, what a joy this blesses hope we have. No more pain no more tears.. no more confusion in her mind.and body. she can sing and dance on those streets of gold!. You and your family are in my prayers. Dawn
Just thinking about you guys and wanted to drop another line. God, through you and Misty, touched so many lives, and I know He is smiling down upon you at the wonderful way you represented Him. I am forever changed by this story. I am a better mother, wife, woman than I was before this story. Although, as Christians, we all know our life is not here, but after, still, I am so sorry for the loss of your love. And, as a mother of a beautiful one year old baby girl, my heart breaks that Misty has left too soon. I personally, cannot wait for the day that your family is reunited together. Much love, prayer, and hugs to you and Olivia and all of your family.
Darren I’m very sorry for your loss of Misty. I just want to say that your are a very strong individual and always have been since I’ve known you. I also want to give you praise on your always positive outlook on life and any situation that has challenged it harshly; this is def. one of those times but like all things Darren, you never gave up. Your journal has touched me and your words are encouraging to me to never let the worst of any situation get in the way of what matters most, faith and love. I give my out most sympathy and regards to you and your family.
Darren and Olivia and family and friends~
I am so sorry for your loss of your precious Misty. I have followed the blog for only a few weeks but have been inspired on how to continue my own cancer journey by the way you all have given God the glory and trust and belief in him and his abiltiy to heal Misty. She is no longer a prisoner of this horrible disease called cancer. She was healed from the cancer, just not the way us humans understand or wanted for ourselves. She is now with you and Olivia as your guardian angel, she is with you every day, and she is so very proud of you Darren and Olivia. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Thank you for sharing Misty with us. God works in mysterious ways, and I am so grateful to you for allowing us into your lives (perfect strangers) and teaching us what it is to truly love, to show us God is in every part of our lives, not to give up hope, miracles do happen, some just become angelic first and continue on with God’s message. So thank you for changing my life and my ability to look at this cancer diagnosis/doctor’s death sentence as a way for God to show me how to cope and grow and know that I am not alone. We will continue to pray for you and Olivia, Misty’s family and friends who knew and loved her so much. God Bless. A song “If you could see me now”, by Bebo Norman has been dedicated and will play on our local Christian station during the memorial. Your family has touched hundreds if not thousands of lives, thank you again and I am so sorry.
God bless brother Darren .. my prayer have been .. are and wiil always be with you and Olivia in mind and in my thoughts .. praying now for God to always give you the strength that we all need to endure and persevere .. Misty has and will continue to touch the life of many .. for sure you both have far more then I can say and you can imagine touched mine .. most of my poetry written in the past few years have come from my own spiritual walk with Jesus and He has been my inspiration, my teacher and my friend .. some have come from the inspiration my love for my wife brings to my life and some from a heartfelt things call emotion, compassion and also faith you and Misty have brought to me .. feeling of love for you and Misty .. the body of
Christ has felt this love .. its that love that we can only get from our Heavenly Father is in you .. and you have displayed it and showned it to us .. its a gift and many have seen and learnd that .. I did not know that kind of love even after being married for over 26 years and always loving my wife .. but untill two and a half years ago when I came to know the Lord and had a personal relationship with Him .. I really did not know what true love is for God first and then for the wife of my youth .. God showed me what true unconditional love is and how to really and truly love my wife .. and you my brother have that kind of love .. so much of it you dispersed it to the heart of more men then you will ever know and for that God will bless you and woman will thank you … God has big plans for you and only He knows what they are and in time so will you .. for His wisdom is also in you .. I will leave you my brother first with a prayer and then with a poem I wrote the day I read that the angels had come to escort your Misty to Heaven .. Father tonight I come before you Lord with tears in my eyes and my heart in sorrow for my brother Darren Lord but delighted in you Lord for you know everything from the beginning of time .. Lord only you Lord know why You do the things and the way You Father do what you do .. we just live to trust You Father that you do it all because you love us and your purpose has a reason .. Lord I pray to you because you and only you Lord can comfort us .. and that comfort I pray Lord you continue to bring a fresh dose daily to our brother Darren and that everything His hands touch for your Glory and testimony Lord that you bless it with Your Mighty hand .. that his Love for you Lord continue to grow and continue to flow to all that with him came into contact .. thank You Jesus for healing Misty .. thank you Jesus for everything Lord .. even that which we can not understand we thank you Lord .. AMEN and AMEN
God bless you Darren and all your family
“In Death There’s Peace”
For an ungodly soul, death holds not hope or rewards
what awaits is pain, torture and a whole lot of remorse
In a lake of fire, were all chance for redemption is lost
a place we can all avoid, for absolutely no pay of cost
Because for man, Jesus paid with His life at Calvary’s Cross
So that when mortal life is done, we exist not just to turn and toss
We mourn, shed buckets of tears, when we loose one we hold dear
but with Jesus we just let go, of our loved ones without any fear
Knowing angels escorted them from earth, that’s plain and mere
to the Heavens where we all keep hope, to say Lord I’m here
make our loved ones proud, that for a little longer we endured
For victory is the promise of a body, healthy, strong and pure
therefore no longer needs for a cure or of our days keeping score
Counting the tics of a minute, to an hour in a day, is just a bore
having not of the peace I speak, this you will do till your deceased
But to die in Christ is to live, when His Spirit a soul He release
Glory a crown and eternity, for them who In Death There’s Peace.
written by Tbone /atw JAH
on 09.24.2008
in memory of Misty LeBlanc “a woman of love and faith”
Darren,
Still thinking of y’all and praying; I don’t think I’ll ever stop. My heart breaks for you and Olivia. I don’t understand but I do know that the Lord is good and you are in good hands.
Your example has blessed me and so many others more than you will ever know. I pray that you continue to have peace that passes understanding and that you feel the warmth of the Lord’s presence all around.
Love in Christ
Darren,
Hello! I know that you don’t know me personally, but we have met on a couple of occasions, one being Sarah and Matthew Rounds’ wedding. I was the Maid of Honor.
I have read a couple of your entries about Misty prior to this one and I have been praying for her, you and your combined families through it all. I am greatly sorry for your loss, but encouraged that Misty was a believer and that she is now up in heaven with God. I will continue to pray for all of you and for the services for Misty. God bless you and your precious little girl through all of this.
Your sister in Jesus,
Marjie
I can’t sleep
My heart aches
My words fall short
Rain is constantly falling like tears
“Put my tears in Thy bottle”
Psalm 56:8
We don’t understand, we don’t know why
But Our Lord Jesus does.
“Precious in the sight of the Lord
is the death of His Godly ones.”
Psalm 116:15
Oh, my heart breaks for you and your precious daughter. I only came accross this site a couple of days ago and I began praying for Misty and your family and also asked my prayer partners to pray. My prayer partners and I will continue to pray for Olivia and you. Words can’t express the sadness in my heart for you and Olivia. May God continue to grant you the peace which surpasses all understanding.
Love & prayers
Becky
Dear Darren,
God bless you for sharing such a personal time with us! Your faith has overwhelmed me and has given strength to mine in the process. I know that God will forever watch over your family. For this is not the end!
All my love & prayers,
Donna I.
Darren and Family Im so srry for your loss. I just want to thank you also for i was and still an going thru some things and have been doubting god but thru this website your encouragement has helped i will keep praying for you and Olivia. God bless DONNA A
I have been moved by your unwavering faith and devotion.
I pray that it continues and helps you to get through.
You have inspired me as well as many of others, I am sure to “return to the fold”.
I wish you and your extended family, health, happiness and the Peace of Mind to accept the unacceptable, and enjoy the Blessings that are to be bestowed upon you in the future.
For Misty:
http://storinguptreasuresinheaven.blogspot.com/2008/09/i-want-to-be-ready.html
My heart breaks for you, your daughter and family members. I have followed your blog for a few months and I have been so inspired by your faith, devotion and steadfast commitment to healing your beautiful Misty. I pray for comfort and blessing to be poured out upon your family.
O MY GOODNESS….Please update your blog..I miss reading your thoughts.
You have so much to live for. To live up to. Do you realize how important you are to so many people? You are so awesome and have been gifted in so many ways. I know your busy…Hope you come back soon.
Take care.
Darren,
I am very sorry for your loss. You and Olivia are in my heart and prayers. Give her many many kisses from me. She needs her Daddy now more than ever. I’m not exactly sure what else to say, but stay strong, stay positive..
If there is anything I can do, please, let me know.
With Love,
Amanda, your cousin
Writing to the audience here, I have little doubt that if I asked “Does God have the power to raise Misty from the dead?” the majority would respond “Yes”. If I scroll down a few lines, back a few days, I also see that nearly everyone, whether they truly acknowledged it in their hearts or not, believed not only that God could heal Misty, but that He would heal Misty. We believed that and repeated it, and prayed for it, and must have therefore felt it to be God’s will, for who of us would knowingly pray contrary to His will. So if until late on the evening of September 23rd, it was God’s will to heal Misty, and we also believe that He has the power to raise her from the dead, why aren’t we praying for that?
Don’t stop praying for Darren, he needs your prayers more than ever. Comfort him; he is going through a lot right now. But why stop there? Why give up?
Jairus’ daughter died before Jesus arrived, and was resurrected in her room.
The widow’s only son was in his coffin on his way to the cemetery.
Lazarus had been was in his grave four days.
I have never seen this powerful a response, the prayer and fasting for months, and a movement building steam as hundreds then thousands joined the story. I am not saying that it will happen; I can’t speak in absolutes when it comes to God’s plan for someone else’s life. But I am saying that as far as God and His power nothing has changed since 9:15PM on Tuesday. And if nothing has changed for God, than I don’t think it should change for us.
I still believe.
Anonymous,
Whoever you are, you are a witness for Christ! You are not alone. Praying for Darren, Olivia, family, & Misty!
Always follow the Holy Spirit’s lead : )
Our minds can not fathom. Confusion is not from God. (I’m speaking to my own mind…)
ONLY BELIEVE!
I have no words, just wanted you to know that I’m out here, praying for you, Olivia, and family.
I will remember all of the fun memories I shared with Misty and I know you will too – that’s how she would have wanted it…to laugh and smile when we think of her. Love to your family as you face the loss of an amazing woman. Her legacy lives on for sure!
I’m sorry to hear about your grief and Misty’s brief life.
Your words and how you express your love and faith are amazing.
Denise (referred by Courtney)
http://permissiontomother.blogspot.com
I was so saddened to hear of Misty’s passing…I know she’s up in heaven having a wonderful time right now, which is great. I still think of you, Darren, and your daughter Olivia almost every day. Your blog has truly touched my life over the two months I’ve been reading it, and has helped strengthen my faith in God. And I know I’m not the only person here who can say that :-) Thank you. I’ll still be reading and praying for you.
~Jen
Darren,
Our bible study fascilitator read from your blog yesterday, particularly this one.
I am sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and wisdom and will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Darren,
You are simply amazing. Your strength in our God during this most difficult time is such an inspiring testimony to thousands. Thank you for sharing your story about Misty, your love for her, for your family and most importantly our God. I am truley sorry for your loss. May God bless you seventy times seven for your unwavering faithfulness in Him.
God Bless You,
Heather in MckInney, Tx.
Hello Darren,
I do not know you or your beloved Misty. I was directed here by a post on Sharon Taylor’s site. I was drawn in immediately. I wanted to share my sympathies and my prayers for your new journey without your wife. God bless you and Olivia.
Darren,
I am only now reading this and offer my greatest sympathies and thoughts. I wish I had been able to offer them earlier, but want you to know that I wish you strength and courage.
Love,
anthony